A couple of years ago, me and my husband started to have problems in our sex-life. Sometimes we just did it because we had to do it. We reached to a point where we set a date on when we were going to have sex with each other. The years passed and both me and my husband came close to cheat and claim for divorce. As we were arguing many thoughts and ideas came out from our moths. Things like “I wanna have sex with you and another man” or “I wanna try watching you have sex with another woman”. Things got really complicated and there I was wondering: “how will I ever fix this marriage of ours?”

Many days and nights passed by as my husband moved out and crashed at a hotel nearby our town. Then it hit me…. What if…? What if we actually did all this “prohibited” sexy things?

We talked about it and then we started to have fun! Swinging can be a really fun experience. You are probably wondering why right now. Here are a few reasons to why all couples should try it out. Start by taking it slow though, from soft swinging to full swinging.

Reason # 1

Well for starters, swinging saved my marriage and my sex-life.

Swingers are fun and kind and people who will take care of you since they already know the feeling of being new at something. They are active, honest and very open to new friendships.

Reason # 2

All swingers are healthy because they are careful with their life style. What I mean to say is that the majority of swinger clubs and bars discourage excessive alcohol consumption and they do not allow drug use. So you can go out, have a couple of drinks and have sex as a “normal” person, knowing exactly what you are doing all the time.

Reason # 3

The majority of swingers enjoy dressing up and being watched. All those daring dresses and lingerie you wanted to order from sex shops and catalogs, you can ware those now and show off. Nobody will laugh or anything! In the contrary, swingers will encourage you to dare more.

Reason # 4

All of your fantasies will come true! Even if you dreamed of having sex with your partner and another woman/man or even couple or even better a gangbang, swinging is a real genie in a bottle.

Reason # 5

Sexy things you may just read about and further let be without even daring to try them out. When you become a swinger you are allowed to talk about it with other couples and perform it as you desire.

Reason # 6

When you are joining a swingers’ community you are sort of starting all over again to take care of you. Being attractive is good to anyone. You don’t have to go into a diet and/or exercising but you will automatically start taking care of yourself. Many times couples stop maintaining their attractiveness and the settle down. When you swing you will feel a lot different.

Reason # 7

You can pick and choose when you are a swinger. You will not go for the easy target, but you will fulfill your fantasies. Brunettes, blondes, big cock, black cock. You can just pick and choose.

Reason # 8

Swinging offers you a lot more good friends than you could ever imagine. If you start meeting swingers, you probably get new and several friends. With those friends you will be able to share your thoughts, desires and interests and they might even be willing to go on to an intimate level.

Those, where a few of a dozen reasons to why couples should join the swinging life style. Swinging can become a great experience for you and your partner.

I know one thing for sure… it saved me from losing my life partner.

Have a good evening!

Xoxo