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The two of us have a strong relationship, met in high school, have two younguns and are looking at our 11th anniversary come Earth day. I believe us to be an odd type for swingers though because while they're are no hangups and we're just trying to have fun... We are both kind of introverted at first and aren't into the club scene and large crowds. We're shy at first but open up quickly with folks we enjoy the company of. Unfortunately we currently live somewhere neither feels at home but, unlike the classic image of "swingers," lack the necessary funds to relocate. This is a very bible belt area, we're agnostic and very liberal, not politically, we typically vote for an independent, if it even matters... Having both been born and raised in these smoky mountains, we do have "southern traits," however, we aren't much like many around these parts. It is for these reasons that I believe we have yet to find anyone to experiment in such desires with.

 

Another thing for us is that, being new to the game, we aren't comfortable with a meet-n-play one time thing. We would prefer to start with someone who would enjoy being in a FWB situation and a somewhat regular playmate. We prefer to meet and see how things go before saying anything for sure. This could be holding us back but oh well, neither of us have ever been a one night stand type and we likely won't start that way. As more experienced people, do y'all think this is a weird stance?

 

As far as our sexual interests and desires, we're very open. We enjoy D/s play and bondage but aren't into the really extreme stuff. We have tried a MfM a few times with the same old friend a few years back but he couldn't perform very well. The experience left us wanting more with someone who could keep up. We've also had same room sex with another couple, the two of us were more than ready to do more but they weren't comfortable with going much further. We enjoy voyerism, exhibitionism, and playing outside, you can check out our albums and see some of our outdoor pics! As far as bringing others in, we're open to MfM, Mff, MfMf, MMfMf and MMMf with the right folks and these are all situations we desire to find ourselves in, hopefully in the near future.

 

I suppose we all face the issue of picky people and will not deny that we also fall into such a category. As younger people, we've got a couple years til 30, we do have an age preference, which is under 40 for singles and under 50 for some couples. Another thing for us is that we're really mostly interested in bi or pansexual folks. Single guys should be orally bi or bi curious at the least and bisexual ladies are our preference, we're not as picky with couples but bi is ideal.

 

While we may be shy, we're not ashamed of who we are. All of our friends think we're crazy, we don't hold much back...

We're really just a couple of nerdy cannabis loving hippy type who are always horny and very kinky who believe that living life to its fullest, is the only way to be happy in a society that worships money, something we've never had a lot of.

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Welcome. I think you'll find swingers to be a very diverse group. Many people are similar to you in personality, experience and desires. I think as you get more involved you'll find a community of people where you fit in within the swing community.

 

If you are interested in more feedback you might post this on the forums, rather than as a blog.

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You are not alone. We (my wife and I) are with you in spirit.

 

Great start to a Swingersboard blog!

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I'm so glad that another member is taking advantage of the blog area of the site. :) Finding a single or a couple that you really click with will take time and sometimes when you think everything clicks, life gets in the way and just makes getting together difficult. So, just be patient and dedicated and you'll find them!

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Hey there. Great to meet you and to read your post.

 

Ever since we have been here on this site we have been able to chat and gain some great advice from those that have been in the LS a lot longer than we have. It has definitely been a learning experience for us both and we have thoroughly enjoyed the journey thus far. Thanks to the advice given and the members we have been able to chat with, it makes things much more comfortable and understanding, especially to anyone new or curious about the LS.

 

Like yourselves, we have never been into the one-night-stand find and fuck side of things. Not knocking or judging anyone that is, as we are all different and have different tastes. It is just not for us. We are more into meeting, establishing a connection, and developing a more long-term FWB commitment with another couple, or a select male who enjoy joing another couple for some MFM play. Yes, we do enjoy the 3sum fun as we learned early on that it is something that works for us (especially with the limited number of couples in the LS from our area),

 

In any case, enjoy the journey, do things at YOUR pace and that you BOTH agree with, and always discuss and communicate how you feel with each other.

 

All the best,

 

D and W

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Hey, thanks for checking us out and taking the time to read our blog.

 

We seem to be somewhat similar, as we also prefer a FWB thing with people we can have fun with in more than just sex. Ideally, there would be two or three ladies, two or three guys, and a couple or two who we can play with when the mood calls. Unfortunately most around where we are seem to be looking for as many one nighters with as many people as possible and that isn't our style.

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Are you in NC, I ask because you mentioned smoky mountains. If so, we can plan something. We are in Raleigh.

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