It is rather amusing to go back and read what I wrote a year ago. It is even funnier to read the sage advice of all who provided it. A year has passed and we are still at the same place. She is in the LS, and I am not. Well, that is not totally correct, I have become what I like to call a "social swinger". She still plays occaisionally, and I chat on-line with folks in the LS. We go to Meet and Greets as often as possible and make new friends. About the only things that have changed are my attitude toward swinging, and her attitude about my not swinging. While I have become comfortable with the idea that I am not going to actually participate, she has decided that I am preventing her from enjoying play by not participating in MFM's with her (they still do nothing for me), and by not getting excited watching her play. Seems like every time I think I get this figured out, something new comes up.......it continues......