Second Cousins at a Party

It’s inevitable if you go to parties that one day you will see someone you know. We have seen people from business and others we know but not well. Before posting this I searched and saw others say they have met daughters and sons, in-laws, and others they never expected. I always wondered how I would react.

We recently were invited to a house party. We have enjoyed a party at these people’s house before. Big clean house and they do it right. Private bedrooms, play areas with air mattresses, and a kinky room that’s interesting. Stacks of clean towels and robes in a dressing room. The couple who owns the house are older and sweet. They greet every couple at the door with a glass of champagne which I say is so classy.

We go to the changing room put our clothes in plastic bins and take a robe. Another couple is in there with us and we start a conversation. I am looking forward to maybe being with them. Mike was very friendly to both and suggested we have a drink together. While at the bar getting to know our new friend I hear “Patty”. Nobody calls me Patty, I am Trish or Tricia, nobody calls me Patty anymore. EXCEPT FAMILY. It’s my cousin, technically a second cousin, my Father’s cousin’s son. We really only see each other at funerals and some family occasions. I don’t know when they got there. They were already in robes too.

We had some family talk that chased the other couple to excuse themselves. I really didn’t want to spend the night like this. My cousin is good looking and his wife is also except he is family. Others are already getting busy and we are still talking. So much going through my head.

We ended up in a bedroom and playing. Were we wrong? Is this taboo?

What was the book "six degrees of separation" about.

I don't see an issue We are planning on meeting up with wifes female cousin in vegas in a few months

OMG! I think it's pretty hot. My 1st cousin Margaret is a gorgeous redhead who still lives in eastern Pa. A very well raised catholic girl from South Philly, I'd have loved to run into her and her husband at CKS or the Pleasure Garden. This post just triggered a long dormant fantasy!!

I say have fun and don't overthink things. We were in Jamaica a few years back.and ran into.my cousin and his wife at Hedo. The first thing I said to him was "Baby I had no idea that the boys in our family had big cocks!". Before the week was over my husband hooked up with his wife and I gave him some sweer cousin love and sucked his big beautiful cock. No big deal and we are all good back in reality-ville..

MrsHasAllTheAnswers, I’m joking, and I have been playing with friends for about three years. I was at first uneasy doing this and unsure why she wanted to. I’ve gotten over it and now enjoy everything about it. A few months into playing I was surprised at a party when I saw my wife’s cousin. I shouldn’t be surprised, this cousin has many of the same friends we do and we are pretty close with her. We were very supportive during her divorce. I never suspected she was into this. My wife I found out knew. Girl talk. I feel like the guy who has no idea sometimes. I know she isn’t my cousin, only through marriage. Funny thing she has so many things in common with my wife in bed.

Life is wonderful

When I was a teen, I learned that my mom’s two brothers were swingers. Apparently first one and then a year or two later, the older one brough the younger one into it. Word was that it was about wife swapping and such. Interestingly enough, the focus of the family outrage was not on the fact that it was 2 brothers and their wives but more on the fact that they were all swingers, all 4 of them and fears that other members of the extended family might be recruited..

Is this taboo?

I think it depends on the individual. Mrs two4you is really close to, and grew up around some of her 2nd cousins. For her and those specific ones it would be in the icky zone. I didn't meet any of my 2nd cousins until adulthood, so I don't have that Westermarck Effect concerning them.

2nd cousins have a set of great-grandparents in common. That's getting some distance in most cases. We're talking what, 3% common DNA?

If you're OK with it and they're OK with it, then have a good time.

In high school, of all places, we read about a guy who had sex with his mother. I don't remember much else other than it didn't turn out well.

... fears that other members of the extended family might be recruited..

Fears for some perhaps, but hope for others.

As was stated, if you go to parties you might see people you know. Friends, cousins and even siblings. Read some posts on here and you will read where even adult children have been to parties that their parents were there.

All the parties we go to involve people I met in college. I went to very large state university where there is a long history of generations of families have a legacy. There are cousins I was friends with in school and both have been to our parties. My biggest surprise was when I learned the older brother of one of my friends played too.

As was stated, if you go to parties you might see people you know. Friends, cousins and even siblings. Read some posts on here and you will read where even adult children have been to parties that their parents were there.

All the parties we go to involve people I met in college. I went to very large state university where there is a long history of generations of families have a legacy. There are cousins I was friends with in school and both have been to our parties. My biggest surprise was when I learned the older brother of one of my friends played too.

Are you sure you aren’t a Razorback?

In many families second cousins don’t know they are related. My wife has a cousin I would be with it if she were in the LS. In HS I had a friend with an older sister. I know nudity was fine in their house. Even though I thought it went more than that I’m pretty sure it didn’t.

Your friend and her brother?

Yesterday my cousin called me. I don’t remember giving him my cell number. Maybe I did. He was very apologetic saying he was sorry he pushed himself and interrupted my conversation with the other couple. I told him it was fine, it wasn’t really. He started talking about all things and I just let him talk. I am thinking he didn’t know how to act. I told him I didn’t either. I asked him if he thought it was a mistake. He said his wife thought it wasn’t a wise thing. She said we were fun, it was the cousin thing. I assured him Mike and I are happy we played.

No U.S. state bars second cousins marrying, as far as I know. This seems like an edge case where maybe it's awkward but you both had fun and it ultimately doesn't matter.

The problem is when cousins reproduce together, even second cousins shouldn’t.

No U.S. state bars second cousins marrying, as far as I know. This seems like an edge case where maybe it's awkward but you both had fun and it ultimately doesn't matter.

Married? Have Children? Huh!!!

no one is talking marriage here. i don't anyway

Don’t know why we are going to dinner with my cousin. Part of me is saying stay away, he is convincing and Mike agrees that we enjoyed the time we were with them. Mike says they are fun and safe and I keep saying, Mike! He’s my cousin. Mike also says it’s just a meal and we don’t have to play. I don’t know my cousin that well and the time we were with them was the first time we ever really were together socially outside of family. The question is if he wasn’t my cousin, second cousin, would we meet them. I should look at them as strangers we met and enjoyed being with. The truth is if we weren’t cousins we would not be discussing this. At the party we met them we already had our sights on another couple.

The play ship has already sailed! You can't un-fuck your cousin so the question should be more "did I enjoy it enough to do it again"? rather than "should I"? Your husband seems to have voted yes.

The play ship has already sailed! You can't un-fuck your cousin so the question should be more "did I enjoy it enough to do it again"? rather than "should I"? Your husband seems to have voted yes.

I know. Still strange. Will know how strange in an hour.

I can't wait to hear how it turns out. BTW…. PA guys LOVE those Jersey Girls!!

I can't wait to hear how it turns out. BTW…. PA guys LOVE those Jersey Girls!!

We met them at a pretty nice restaurant. It started like most dinner with friends. He is a 2nd cousin and his life has nothing to do with mine as far as family. We played some family geography and it was fun to realize I had very little knowledge of my family. Talk turned political and was happy our politics meshed. We laughed plenty. When the restaurant was emptying we talked about sex and swinging. I swear the waiters were talking about us. Mike and the wife I thought were being bored and the sex talk brought them back in. They have been to many more group parties, clubs and resorts. We aren’t club people and not swinger resort people. Plenty of stories. They loved our pick up stories where we go to hotels and pick up men at the bar. Funny how they both liked watching. We like to meet new people and so do they. Mike and I thought we were going to play that night. We all agreed it was too late and meet again Sunday. We did.

Should lead to some interesting talk at the next family funeral.

Did you go to church together on Sunday?

Details! Details Tricia. The devil AND the fun are in the details!

Details! Details Tricia. The devil AND the fun are in the details!

You like details? Mike most likely knows more details. He watched most of it.

What would you want to know?

I don’t think our time with my cousin was much different from other couples. Mike likes to watch before joining. It was our first time officially alone with them and it was daylight. Mike enjoys watching me undress men and if we are with a couple the wife undresses me. They went along with that. There was about an of play between me and my cousin and his wife before Mike joined in.

I see nothing what-so-ever wrong. Swinging is just another form of enjoying being with friends and your cousin is a friend too, huh?

My oldest cousin's daughter is my wife's age, five years younger than me. We've always been close and attracted to each other, at least I am and I think she is.

Honestly, if she and her husband were to have been at the meet and greet we attended years ago, I know that I'd have been happy as can be.

In high school, of all places, we read about a guy who had sex with his mother. I don't remember much else other than it didn't turn out well.

Oedipus?

Oedipus?

If I recall correctly, his last name was Rex.

My wife is one of 10. I know for a fact both her younger brother and sisters have swung at some point. Her sis and hubby came to our house to hot tub with us and it was no big deal, nudity, no sex. The bro and sis in law were with the other younger sister and met up with friends I also know were swingers and the hubby there played with the sis in law. The family members never touched or played with each other but the in laws were fair game. It sex. Just sex.

great story, I am intrigued though 3 years on how has this progressed