So, I'm looking for ideas on how me and my wife can go about seducing a vanilla single female. (She doesn't need to be bi-sexual, my wife isn't...she'd probably play with the top half just as a turn-on, but she'd be more interested in watching the other girl and me, and playing with me while the other girl plays as well).
We are both pretty good flirters and teasers (actually, my wife is a pro at this!) who aren't afraid to introduce ourselves to someone new (either alone or together), so I'd say that's a good start. I've never been a "pickup artist", so to speak (no offense intended to anyone)...women don't usually notice me until they've seen me several times. Then, they seem to like me quite a bit.
Anyway, I'm trying to think of very seductive things that might easily lead to some action, but without making the single female feel alarmed. A couple thoughts:
1) After we've gotten to know her a bit, jokingly ask her if she'll come take erotic photos of us together (that IS a bit hard to do by yourselves, after all). If she says OK, take it. If she gets turned on enough to join us...cool.
2) I've practiced a bit and learned to give my wife a pretty sensual and erotic "lap dance" (I definitely enjoy getting those myself!) So, maybe if my wife suggested that I get the animal-print loin-cloth and g-string, and give whomever a lap-dance...that might register nicely and create an "ok"...I could see that easily erupting into a little more than intended, if we were alone with the young lady.
3) Getting in the hot tub together naked. I often make a joke about "bathing suits are optional" (as long as there are no kids around). And that's true...my wife and I walk around on the patio quite naked when it's dark. Maybe start with a foot-rub and see where it leads? Or should we guide her to sit on just the right jets?
What other thoughts come to mind? Is it more effective for us to do this together, for me to do some of the seduction by myself (won't I maybe appear to be a cheating husband? definitely not the case), or rely on my wife to do a lot of the seduction on my behalf (or is it just necessary to indicate that it's perfectly OK with her to the girl in question?)?
Your thoughts please!