cplnuswing 4,711 Posted August 26, 2015 When you get together solo with a swinging playmate, is it usually for just for a quickie and then you both are on your way, or do you make an afternoon or evening marathon session of it and have sex several times with some time in between to just chit-chat or hang out together while catching your breath? Distance obviously plays a factor here on how much time is available to start with. In general though, when we play solo with established friends, we tend to take some time doing it. It's kind of an occasional treat sort of thing for us to start with, so just like any other treat, you kind of want to make it last and not just gobble it up in one big bite without having time to really taste and enjoy it. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
sunbuckus 3,565 Posted August 26, 2015 I've only done this with one swing playmate and it's usually a marathon session. Quote Share this post Link to post
SW_PA_Couple 4,019 Posted August 26, 2015 It happens both ways with me. Instance 1: "Hi, whatcha doin' to-nite? Let's get together for wiki-wiki." Instance 2: "While our spouses are doing their respective business trips, let's make a plan." Instance 3: "I'll meet you for dinner then we'll rent a hotel room." Doing it this way means that the significant other is not left downstairs trying to watch America's Got Talent while kanoodling noises are going on upstairs (neither of us is into MFM or FMF). Quote Share this post Link to post
M1F2KTJ 470 Posted August 28, 2015 Sometimes we're in the mood to fuck and sometimes we're in the mood to make love. Distance has an influence. If you are traveling for hours you'll want the experience to last for more than a few minutes. Quickies are fun! I like the excitement of fast and furious. I like marathons too. They usually are more erotic and "exploratory". Usually ,after I've had my first orgasm, a break is nice. After that I can go for a longer time. It makes for very adventurous sex! Quote Share this post Link to post