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    I'm 5'4" and weigh 165. Sexy is an attitude, not a body shape.
    Oooh! Ahhh! That's how it always starts. Then later there's running and screaming. - Dr. Ian Malcom, Jurassic Park II: The Lost World

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pinmonkey
    If that is a picture of you in your profile, I would say you have nothing to worry about.

    Either way, Not everyone can be a supermodel. There's a reason those type of people get paid so much. There's a big demand for them, and a short supply. Be comfortable with how you are, size, shape, scars, streatchmarks, baldness, whathaveyou. It's all apart of who you are, and really, that's all that matters to most.

    Yes, that is me-- from the most flattering angle possible of course, but with no special effects or Photoshop work other than cropping the image borders and adjusting the contrast. I posted the pictures after this thread had been active for a bit.

    Thanks for the compliments . Everyone is right about relaxing. We are looking for people we like, and not expecting others to be supermodels, so it's fair to think a lot of others have the same attitude.
    Through every dead and living thing, Time runs, like a fuse. -- Jackson Browne

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    Quote Originally Posted by wolfnblu
    I'm 5'4" and weigh 165. Sexy is an attitude, not a body shape.

    You're not kidding... you look great in your pictures. I'm no more than bi-curious, but WOW!
    Through every dead and living thing, Time runs, like a fuse. -- Jackson Browne

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Fuse
    You're not kidding... you look great in your pictures. I'm no more than bi-curious, but WOW!
    Awww, thanks babe! And since I now know that that is you in your pics....I can't understand how you could possibly think your body is unattractive!
    Oooh! Ahhh! That's how it always starts. Then later there's running and screaming. - Dr. Ian Malcom, Jurassic Park II: The Lost World

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    hi there, We all understand the need to want to be visually appealing. I too am trying to loose weight and trim up after 3 kiddo's. I am 4 ft 8 and 133 lbs currently. A far cry from the 98 lbs I am supposed to be. What I am noticing though( we do not frequent clubs since the nearest one is like 100 mi away) that with the women atleast in the groups I belong to here in WY they are almost all a bit overweight. It really surprised me at the first event we went to. I was expecting a bunch of women that were model thin and that wasn't the case at all.

    Denise

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    newbie chiming in (lol): i agree with all the comments stated previously. what it boils down to is the fact that while you might not be at the ideal height/weight proportion you wish you were RIGHT THIS SECOND, you are someone else's idea of pretty darned "perfect"! don't stress...it only gives you wrinkles! be graceful in accepting yourself as you are, make no apologies for yourself, and enjoy life...to do anything else would only be a waste of your time. hopping off my soapbox now...

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    this lyfestyle is the reason why I GOT INTO SHAPE. i thought "i want to play with the beautiful people" and those are the first ones who write "be young and fit only" and i was not going to settle for less than i wanted.

    i am not attracted to people that are poorly groomed or overweight, but that is just me, plenty of people like meat!!! there is plenty for everyone but i advise you that if your issue with body image is causing you to stress, perhaps you should change it FOR YOURSELF... work out and eat better and you will see what a difference it makes in your confidence and how you see others.

    this way of life puts pressures on women that most men dont have (looking good because we want to look good not just for the men but for the women too) and i think the best way to deal with it is being good to yourself... i dont know if i am able to explain myself..

    if something about yourself bothers you, then change it!

    hope this helps

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    I am heavy while my girlfriend is very fit. When we first started talking about swinging I was very reluctant because I was concerned about my weight and appearance. She assured me that she was happy and thought I was sexy. The first time we went to an on-premises swing club I got over my reluctance. There were men and women there who were heavier, and more out of shape than me, and they were swinging and having a good time. Since then we have played with people of all sizes and shapes and had a great time.

    We avoid the clubs where they emphasize appearance and youth too much, as in "must be HW proportionate" or "must fit our standards of appearance." They sound to snooty to enjoy anyway.

    So, don't worry about how you look, just go and have fun.

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