Hi There Everyone,
Thanks for all your input, we really appreciate it. We have talked it over and decided that while swinging won't be out of the questions during the last 6 or so weeks, we will keep it to oral swap, without any penetration from another male. That is, if the chance comes up, we'll have to see where things go from here;)
Just thought I'd let ya'll know, thanks again for your advice/experience
Mr_Looking