Thanks you made feel sooooooooooooo much better. I know hubby would like more, but he said the limits are up to me. If I want this or not. Okay, this gives me something to talk to him about and not sound like I'm saying no. Because I do think about certain parts and get hot. But I can't share my spouse, thanks I feel better to know other do this . Nor do I want to be shared. ( yet??) Thanks again.