Thanks Charles! I'm the one that got this whole discussion started and have read everyone's input. Yours by far has been the most helpful. No disrespect to the others.
I'm really amazed though at the how people feel about God. They seem to either not believe in him or have hard feelings I guess you could say. I don't think that any denomination has it exactly right but they all try to understand what God was saying and that has to give them brownie points at least.
I really thought that somewhere in scripture there was something said about swinging. I know that in the Old Testament men could have many wives and that was my argument about swinging. Just recently I was told that in the New Testament that all changed and God didn't want people to do that. He wanted there to be only one man and one woman in marriage. I'm far from a Bible scholar so I'm just going by what I was told.
That got me to thinking deeper about swinging. I only want to do what God sees as good. If you say that swinging is not mentioned in the bible, I'll take your say so. You have way more diplomas than I do. lol.
All I can say for now is that I really wish more people had more faith in God in knowing that everything has a reason and he knows things that we cannot understand. That's where faith comes in. I will keep trying to find the answers the best I can about my topic and pray. Just remember everyone, we were created in God's image and that's good of course but the devil loves to tell us lies in our minds and the only way to protect ourselves is with the understanding of the scriptures.
I'll keep checking on this thread. I'm sure I'll get a rise out of someone. lol