By what you have said, I wonder if you realize that you have more than one unit. There are millions of men with short, small, and soft units and even ED that are truely satisfying their women beyond belief. If you are feeling inadequit, you are not using the other tools that you have to satisfy her. Just take a look at all of the lesbian and Bi women. Their companions do not even have the tool that you are worried about at all. Your hands, mouth, and tongue, if used properly, are the most effective sex tools you will ever need with most women. Wake Up and learn to use your other tools properly!!