All good points, but very confusing. No bar at my club so I sit a table. Eventually a couple or two will join and we have a lot fun, conversation wise.
To get up and mingle with other couples is chancy. Most, I have found, don’t want to be interrupted. Stop, say hello, and it’s nose in the air look the other way. Getting a compliment in about the wife or expressing intentions is impossible.
Perhaps it’s the club I go to, it surely isn’t me. lol Anyway it seems the combinations are already set when the couples arrive. And the single females arrive with a couple. Now it’s hard enough for a man to approach these couples and say hello, and the single females are impossible.
The point I’m trying to make is that you have to know somebody, or arrive with another couple. I have never yet ‘got lucky’ with a couple or single female from a club. All sexual encounters have been with folks not associated with a club.
Please don’t misunderstand. The people at the club are great folks, pleasant, happy, fun, and most important, have a great deal of respect for each other, and me. A few I wouldn’t give you a plug nickel for, but they respect me and I in turn respect them.