Satx11

The ms. Gave her number to the other wife who she felt really comfortable with. For the most part all the numbers we have exchanged have been with the other husbands. Like I said no communications without full disclosure.

Strangely enough they are in different groups. The first couple was from out of town. The second couple is in a group we enjoy. Granted my wife is very attractive and dresses to kill. She gets a lot of attention. But we are not exclusive to any one couple! If we were then we would be poly not swing. I'm not the jealous type but I don't like my wife or our time being monopolized. Does That Make sense?

So we are fairly new to the LS. So far we have had fun except..... we met this couple and we hit it off. But then they (the guy) started wanting to get together every weekend. He got my wife's number from his wife and started texting her. My wife let me know and forwarded the texts. We had to break away from them and did. Now another guy from a different couple is doing the same thing. We went to a house party and his wife was content to mingle but he ghosted near us. Every time my wife and I would separate ( get drinks ) he would zoom in and start to try and kiss on her and get her to go upstairs. We finally had to leave as it was getting awkward. Next my wife tells he is trying to friend her on FB. Is this common? When we (wife and I) communicate with other couples we make sure all parties know about it. Nothing behind the scenes. We don't want or need the drama!