We've been invited to go for drinks with a couple we met at a lifestyle party. Haven't played with them yet but I'm really into the guy and can tell he feels the same. My husband didn't feel any chemistry with the other woman but says he's up to go for drinks and chat. Hubby also doesn't mind if a I play separately with just the guy at some point. Is there a tactful way to ask if they play separately? I don't want her to feel rejected or that her time was wasted.
We are pretty new to the scene but have already encountered this scenario a few times where only one of us is connecting with the opposite sex partner of another couple. Both my husband and I are fine playing seperately (I guess you'd call this is a hall pass situation?). But it seems like something that has to be handled delicately when sussing out another couple's boundaries. Any tips?
