Thank you for the reply. To answer your question I would say while we are not what I would call experienced swingers we have been to clubs for several years. We started to go just to add spice into our sex life. We would go, watch and play a little than take those memories home. My wife has a very nice body(I know most people say that) but she does. She is very conservative most of the time but when she sees other people having sex and hearing the moans something happens to her. While she has never had intercourse with anyone at the club she has given and received oral as well girl/girl type things.
We have been to Colette once in the very beginning and my wife loved the setup of the club and the people. We rarely do Friday night/single men type nights but her favorite club memory was on a Friday night in Miami where she was looking into a private room and she was getting a lot of attention from a few of the single guys.
I say this because we are thinking of going to Jasmine Friday and Colette Saturday but I don't know if Friday is a good idea and if we just do Saturday, which one would be better.