This is a sincere question and I hope I don't offend anyone! We are just getting started and are very excited at all the fun possibilities that the Lifestyle presents. However, we have been reading through forums after forums, built an SLS profile and we started to recognize a pattern. Is SLS or even the Lifestyle itself, just about sex? What I mean by that, is that many of the SLS profiles show the couples naked or explicit sexual acts. I don't think I would call us prudish, but we look forward to seeing that other person or couple naked for the first time in person. Kinda like unwrapping that very special Christmas gift. Also, many of the profiles are very explicit in describing what they want, how they want it, what size they want, etc. I would assume that there are people that like the lifestyle for the connections that they make, just as, there are people that are in the lifestyle just for the sex. As we are just starting, basically, we are asking what should or can we expect when we approach others or are approached?