My husband and I have been in the lifestyle for about 2 years now. We have enjoyed numerous experiences with couples that have been very enjoyable for all (and a few we'd rather forget, but that's typical I'd imagine!).
I have okayed hubby to meet with individual women solo a few times as well.
I am the first to admit that I am picky - whether couples or singles. This has caused some tension a few times as my husband doesn't understand why I sometimes veto his solo women choices. And it's not even that I have a specific reason - usually just an uneasy feeling. But there are others that I am okay with and there's no unease in my part.
Anyone else have the same thing? Just gut-feelings? Jealousy? Something else?