We're a professional couple attempting to pursue the lifestyle (very slowly, but surely), and we just want to understand and get advice about a little bit of privacy.
Let's say you meet a couple (craiglist, a swingsite, etc) - what do you show, how far do you go? Initially and eventually - we want to know positive and negative experiences. And more importantly: advice.
We're a new couple, young and we think we're brilliant, but we're probably ridiculous. If you have any advice, please post or PM.