I have always been interested in swinging, specifically where there are multiple men and one woman. Let me say that I'm not bi, not that that there is anything wrong with that, but the thought of a bunch of guys pounding a girl from all angles is a real turn on.
I have a very beautiful girlfriend that I have been seeing for some time now. She's 5', curvy but not fat, brunette, 36D chest. We are both in our mid to late 20s and plan on getting married. We have an extremely healthy relationship and both are into lots of different things in the bedroom. She's the first girl who I've dated that LOVES sucking cock and actually asks for anal. She gets off on playing the submissive role in the bedroom which is great because I'm more dominant. We also watch porn together (which was her idea). I'm very lucky.
I don't think she's 100% opposed to swinging/gangbangs, but it still might be a tough sell. Factually I know she's fantasized about group sex. There has been several times when we've been fucking and she says that she would love to have another dick in her mouth.
The subject came up about our wildest fantasies, and she said that several times she fantasized about having a dick in her "pussy, ass, mouth, and one for each hand." I know for some guys that's a turn off but I admit it's a total turn on for me. We were friends for almost 10 years before we dated and know eachothers sexual history and I know shes done some pretty kinky shit, but never threesomes or group sex.
I think her desire to do this goes beyond just a fantasy, but isn't quite something that she would jump into willy nilly.
My question is, how do I approach her about seriously doing this? Let me say that I don't want to coerce her and would NEVER make someone do something that they didn't want to do. I think she's open to the idea but right now is too nervous about it. How would I open her up to this idea and put her mind at ease?
I would love to see her on her knees sucking off me and a bunch of other guys and think she would really get off on it.
Any advice is welcome. Thanks!