Golly Gee, maybe I just don't get it, but what is wrong with love? After scanning thousands of messages, it appears that actually loving the person you are having sex with (unless I do's have been exchanged) is a real no no. Amazingly you can love your spouse, your child, your dress and even your job, but feel compelled to draw the line when it comes to someone you've spent a great deal of time in extremely intimate positions. Perhaps my wife and I are a bit different we actually allow each other to emotional bond with others. Believe me sex plus love is a whole lot better than sex without feelings.
just my opinion.