Thanks to all the advice, I found some of it to be blunt and I thank you for it. I agree with cupid. It was the first and only time he was home alone with someone. My feelings just exploded. I talked it over with him last night. We came to this idea. Now if that same lady came here again, I am sure I would feel more comfortable about it. So I told him that he should work on finding something more stable.I don't like the parties very much, and I have more fun when I play alone with them. The more we go to parties, the more comfortable I get. We have only gone to a few. I am in no way trying to fill an emotional void, just a sexual void. There is some things he can't do, and things I can't do for him. I want him to enjoy the sex and varitiy. I have found that swining makes a stronger couple and closer to each other. There is nothing I can't tell him!