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-Like I said, we're all mutual friends. Elle has us over for social evenings. Our kids play together and we ALL enjoy each others' company. My intentions were just a social evening.
- I've learned that my wife made the comment that she didn't want anything to happen because she really likes Elle's best friend and did not want to jeopardize chances of something happening there.
- Elle ended up coming into our bedroom to say goodnight. In retrospect, the goodnight was very forward.
-Ill admit that Elle was aggressive and that unto itself is a huge turn on for me. She was also very aggressive in the bedroom which was not a turn-on for my wife as she is a very sensual person and doesn't like it rough. Buyers remorse.
I believe we've talked it through and not damaged any friendships. All is well. I hope this sheds a little more light on the subject.