If two couples are playing and one of the guys has problems getting or staying hard, should everything stop for the purpose of allowing the ladies to assist the male in need of some assistance? Or should the couple having no issues be allowed to continue while the other couple attempt to save the evening?
In my mind, I feel (and have in the past with my own spouse) come over and either played with the female (which in my experience gets all the men worked up lol) or offered to help my husband along with things I know he definitely enjoys. I never leave him until I know he's 'good to go' and if I can't arouse him then I will beg of on some alone time to reassess the situation and be certain he's interested in trying again or calling it a night.
I ask because recently this situation occurred for us. Unfortunately, even though my husband was fully aware that something was amiss on our bed in the hotel room, he was enjoying himself so much with the other lady he simply could not stop to address mine obvious situation. Also, I was a bit disappointed in the other female as I would never put another male above the needs of my own husband. My husband feels awful that he didn't stop and check in. But it got me wondering. What does everyone else normally do in this situation???