Hi again guys,thanks for all the replies and me and hubby thought about it and u guys were right it would be too many people,kids would probably wake up in the middle of the fun because of the noise,so only two of our most trusted couple are going to be coming over,they even know my kids and everything,so it's only going to be a really small get together,with couples we know,they know our kids situation,they have the same situation themselves so i think it's going toa really smooth and fun night.