When this couple approached me I had already started looking at profiles in another site for married couples looking for single/bi female. They really are the most naturally kind people you could ever find. I made certain they were both okay with me entering into the dynamics, had plenty of questions for them, which they answered. The problem is, the first interaction was so comfortable and natural. The second, not so much. Instead of me being a part of the action, I found I am expected to wait/watch until I am called in. This is only after several times of the husband asking her if she is "okay" and if I can join in. When I am invited in, he guides me to please her first without him involved, which I am totally fine with. Then, when I am to interact with him, I feel strangely aware I am just a mechanism for him to ejaculate. She will physically move me out of the way when I am interacting with him, not join in, but physically move me away. Again, he questions if she is "okay" and I am given the nod to join in when she replies yes. I'm getting wordy, sorry. But, is this natural and normal? I understand her hesitation, but I asked several times before meeting if they had done this, and their reply was several times and they are "pros" at it and it was actually her idea. I'm so confused!!