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shymxcpl last won the day on January 22 2009
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71 ExcellentAbout shymxcpl
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Rank
100 Posts Club
- Birthday 10/03/1973
Personal Info
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Relationship Status
couple
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Location
mexico
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Swinging Experience
Est 2001
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Anniversary
3/14/1998
Swinger Info
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SDC Username
sweetlifestyle
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Favorite Club(s)
fun4two (Amsterdam) / Anchorena (Buenos Aires)
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shymxcpl started following Daughter caught us - How to handle this?, What kind of jobs do swingers have?, What's Your Current Favorite Site & Why? and and 3 others
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What kind of jobs do swingers have?
shymxcpl replied to eldiablo311's topic in Curious About Swinging?
I run an art gallery and mrs shy runs a pre-school. -
What's Your Current Favorite Site & Why?
shymxcpl replied to DenMor4's topic in Finding People to Swing With
SDC has been our favorite from 2008. It caters more to the international traveler. We love their travel planner feature. It's sleek, and easy to use, plus lots of hot couples We are also in SLS but we haven't had any luck there. Lifestyle Lounge is also great but very localized in CA. -
swinging with my wife and brother
shymxcpl replied to bimarriedguy82's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
It would make for a very interesting Thanksgiving Dinner... We personally don't like to involve family in our little escapades, but I do see how if we say we're open-minded people, we can't be completely closed to the idea. -
What's Your Current Favorite Site & Why?
shymxcpl replied to DenMor4's topic in Finding People to Swing With
We've been sdc members since 2008 and I have to say it's our favorite. Not only does it cater to our region really well, but it has a great international membership so you can always find an attractive couple anywhere in the world that you might be heading to. If you are from California, I think Lifestyle Lounge might be worth a look too. -
Would you stop swinging if discovered?
shymxcpl replied to ALilOEverything's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I think we actually started because we WERE discovered. We used to be so careful about our erotic adventures that we never really got anywhere. Then one day, after a fallout with a friend we were outed to our group of closest friends and to our surprise, most of them are still with us. Despite that they did express that they could/would never do anything of the sort, we still see them and it's almost as if nothing happened. So in the end all that changed was that we became less concerned about hiding our nature and now we regularly find much more play dates than before. A lot more fun this way.... -
I've been asked to SHUT UP during sex!! hahaha
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Daughter caught us - How to handle this?
shymxcpl replied to Playingnow's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Sounds like you have a wonderful daughter. I think that the fact that you are also in the lifestyle should serve to reassure her of her own decisions. It sounds like she wasn't so sure that she was doing the right thing but you can build on the fact that you and your wife are swingers to give her some moral support. And hug her as much as you can!!! She's a great girl! -
Swinging in Television, Film, and Media
shymxcpl replied to Alura's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
One more coming out: Fling AKA Lie to Me (2008) Lie to Me (2008) An attractive young couple's open relationship is stretched to the breaking point when each partner finds themselves falling in love with other people. Labeled as Romance... we shall see.... -
Swinging in Television, Film, and Media
shymxcpl replied to Alura's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
Mona Mona (2008) Low budget and from the looks of it IMDBers don't like it, but my wife and I found it quite amusing. -
"Which...has led us to not really understanding others who have such hard and fast rules that if they are broken why do they cause major trauma/drama?" I agree with you completely. Rules are made to be broken and people who make up strict rules are heading for trouble for sure. It's like that 3 stroke rule on that other troll thread. I think people should trust their instincts and follow ONE simple rule. Respect your partner at all times. It's nice to know that you guys have such an open and honest relationship! KUDOS!!!
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Swinging in Television, Film, and Media
shymxcpl replied to Alura's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
Did someone see Viva (2007) They were housewives seeking kicks, in a world of swingers, orgies, booze and sin that was the sexual revolution! Viva (2007/II) -
"If you ___ mess this up in any way, then I will boot your ass to the door , right in front of HER, any problems and I will never see you again, ever. I dont care how much you cry to get back with me . You make any problems your out, forever." Wow ... that guy has some balls! F*ck it up for him and see what happens... It's not like he's a keeper anyway.
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Are all swinging ladies fit and attractive?
shymxcpl replied to lolagirl's topic in Look and Feel Your Best!
AMEN TO THAT! This is totally true. That's why I think most of us agree that the most important step towards looking good is feeling good about yourself. I myself, know I'm not perfect... but with the right mood lighting (if not candle light)... The point IS to have fun and not worry too much about the little unimportant things like if swinging ladies are fit. There are people who are fun to be around and then there are people who aren't, and fitness has got nothing to do with that.