Basically the title says most of it. We are relatively new ( a couple of months) and have had good experiences. However I have noticed that mrs ibrew does things differently with others than with me. I asked her if she would be willing to be like that with me sometimes and she said it was part of playing and not real. Still I feel a little jealousy when I see her with others in those ways. She also responded that it was degrading for me to ask for those aspects of swinging with others. I have been really trying to bring it up in a positive light, but ends up in an unpleasant argument. Maybe this has been answered in other posts but can't find it.
I need a little help. Am I asking for a comparison of others, which we agreed we wouldn't do?