mfm joys

[mfmyeahbaby]

I'm curious as to what everybody out there truely thinks about their mfm. I can say for us that has been one of the best sexual experiences we've ever had. We've been fortunate to find a trusted and friendly guy to joy in. She has opened up so much and everytime we do it, we just seem to grow more. I know that the other guy is totally respectful of my wife and would never do anything to hurt or disapoint her. Thats why for us this sexual relationship has taken off and the sky is the limit. With respect like that for your situation no matter what it is, it's hard not to jump in and totally enjoy. Thats why for us the mfm is our choice. I would like to know what it is about the mfm that keeps you coming back for more. For the ladies: is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy the sex you get with your stunt dick. For the fella: is it possible for you to completely enjoy the visual of another man completely turned on by you woman and totally fucking her and see her love every inch and in turn she totally fucks him dry. I think most if not all who indulge in mfm play would probaly be totally turned by whatever is happening.

[NakedInSeattle]

DITTO! i get the biggest kick out of seeing Mrs. Naked in the throes of sex with another guy (or gal). She feels the same when its another couple or a fmf. That is why we do it. As much for the other as for ourselves.

Yes, she loves her 2nd dick because it's a different one and because I'm there getting off on it too.

Enjoy and good luck.

[ohash01]

I LOVE mfms...there's something just so fabulous about having 2 guys paying attention to me. And it REALLY turns J. on to see another man play with me. We too, have just one guy that we really really trust. He keeps our "dirty little secret" even though we have all the same vanilla friends.

Sadly, we are probably done with him for now...unless the girl he just started seeing (who he's bringing down in a couple weeks when he comes to visit) is into swinging as well.

[LikeMinds321]

IWe've been fortunate to find a trusted and friendly guy to joy in. I know that the other guy is totally respectful of my wife and would never do anything to hurt or disapoint her...With respect like that for your situation no matter what it is, it's hard not to jump in and totally enjoy...

Maybe I'm viewing your post with too much scrutiny, but when I came upon "stunt dick" your post took my thinking in a whole new direction.

For a single man that you speak of with such regard, who you feel is so respectful of your wife, it seems disrespectful to call him a "stunt dick".

Imagine if he wrote your post from his point of view and said this:

For the single males: is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy the sex you get with your stunt pussy?

I don't know, maybe you would still feel this man respects your wife even if he posted in a forum and called her a stunt pussy.

LM

[Dynamar]

For a single man that you speak of with such regard, who you feel is so respectful of your wife, it seems disrespectful to call him a "stunt dick".

Imagine if he wrote your post from his point of view and said this:

For the single males: is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy the sex you get with your stunt pussy?

I don't know, maybe you would still feel this man respects your wife even if he posted in a forum and called her a stunt pussy.

LM

Amen, amen and yea, a thousand amens, LM!

Yet another example of the kind of dismissive, disrespectful and haughty attitudes that so many couples--even those who purport to enjoy play with singles--display.

Sad.

[luv2buck]

For a single man that you speak of with such regard, who you feel is so respectful of your wife, it seems disrespectful to call him a "stunt dick".


LM

"Stunt Dick"

Huh??? "Disrespectful" you say?

LM, are you feeling OK? Did you bump your head or something?? I'm just a little worried about ya because..


Stunt Dick has gotta be the single coolest job title I have ever heard in my whole life!

Most of us dudes would give their left testicle to have the honor of that prestigious a title.

Geez, I'd have my business card look like this....

___________________________________

Business logo here phone and email

address here


Buckminster Futt --- Stunt Dick
___________________________________


So when ya get promoted, is your title- "Big Stunt Dick" ?

Or if you're an old fart like me- "Senior Stunt Dick" ?

Or a guy on the executive staff- "VP of Stunt Dick" ?

LM -- I hope I made you laugh and that your head is feeling better now!!!

best regards,

buck

[lovinher]

Sorry what but is wrong with a stunt dick? So what else is this dick there for? Wining and dining? He's there to fuck plain and simple. I'm sure there are plenty of exceptions, but for the most part why would a single male be in the lifestyle? He's there there to fuck another mans wife.
If and and when we have a MFM he will be a stunt dick.

[JacobSky]

Being a single male that has been in mfm threesomes with a couple, maybe I can share one more perspective.

First off, having sex with a man's wife while he watches or joins in with pleasuring her is very exciting. Yes, the purely physical side of it is a major part of the satisfaction, but not all of it for me. I get much of my satisfaction in a mfm threesome for playing an important role in a woman's fantasy. You see, I have always gotten really turned on by women's fantasies and the stories of their fulfillment. I've noticed in many (but not all) swingers ads that they are looking to have similiar fantasies fulfilled. The well endowed single male, the elusive bi female, the younger male, the orgie, the gang bang, and the friendly party couple are the most common fantasy roles that I've seen over many years of reading. The only one that I fit in at this time is the younger male role. I don't know what I'll do once I'm no longer in my twenties, but I hope to be married and be the husband getting to watch by then. Actually, my biggest fantasies involve me watching a woman that I love have sex with a well endowed male or with another woman. So now, intead I enjoy fitting into the mfm experiences. I will admit, I have some new hot erotic ideas that I've yet to fulfill in mfm threesomes with me being the single guy. At first, it was a fantasy just to be in a threesome, now I want to try various positions, places, ideas, etc....

Just as an aside, since I've mentioned swingers seeking fantasy fulfillment, I've noticed that newer couples seek fantasy fulfillment more than couples that have been swinging for a longer period of time. Experienced couples are more likely to seek singles or couples that they can be friends with outside of the bedroom as well. It makes sense that newer couples seek ideal fantasy lovers at the begginings. I think that the experienced couples still keep an eye out for rare experiences, but experienced couples usually look more at the person "as a whole person" than newer couples.

So, there's more to enjoying a mfm, even for the single male, than just having sex with a wife. At least in my case there is more to it.

Oh, about the "stunt dick" title. I wouldn't get upset over being referred to as that, but I'd hope to mean more to the couple than that. I'd like to be seen as a friend.

[lovinher]

Understood Jacobsky. But not everyone is looking for friends. SOME swingers just want the sex. I meant no offense to you single males.

[mfmyeahbaby]

Maybe I'm viewing your post with too much scrutiny, but when I came upon "stunt dick" your post took my thinking in a whole new direction.

For a single man that you speak of with such regard, who you feel is so respectful of your wife, it seems disrespectful to call him a "stunt dick".

Imagine if he wrote your post from his point of view and said this:

For the single males: is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy the sex you get with your stunt pussy?

I don't know, maybe you would still feel this man respects your wife even if he posted in a forum and called her a stunt pussy.

LM

Your absolutely right, I appreciate you view on my verbage. I will recant my text and revise with our chosen playmate. To all the ladies I mean no disrespect. Again thank you for thoughts. :surrender

[mfmyeahbaby]

To further add, the reason why the wife and I call him that is because just like in the movies they cast someone who looks similar. Well in this case we are built alike,from head to toe, but alittle taller. Anyway that being the only difference think on the rest. I probably should've kept the pet name just that and came up with a better description.

[JacobSky]

Understood Jacobsky. But not everyone is looking for friends. SOME swingers just want the sex. I meant no offense to you single males.

Oh, no offense taken lovinher.

Being able to see the perspectives that others have about sex is one of my favorite things about this forum, and there are so many different perspectives here.

[younger1]

Being a single male that has been in mfm threesomes with a couple, maybe I can share one more perspective.

First off, having sex with a man's wife while he watches or joins in with pleasuring her is very exciting. Yes, the purely physical side of it is a major part of the satisfaction, but not all of it for me. I get much of my satisfaction in a mfm threesome for playing an important role in a woman's fantasy. You see, I have always gotten really turned on by women's fantasies and the stories of their fulfillment. I've noticed in many (but not all) swingers ads that they are looking to have similiar fantasies fulfilled. The well endowed single male, the elusive bi female, the younger male, the orgie, the gang bang, and the friendly party couple are the most common fantasy roles that I've seen over many years of reading. The only one that I fit in at this time is the younger male role. I don't know what I'll do once I'm no longer in my twenties, but I hope to be married and be the husband getting to watch by then. Actually, my biggest fantasies involve me watching a woman that I love have sex with a well endowed male or with another woman. So now, intead I enjoy fitting into the mfm experiences. I will admit, I have some new hot erotic ideas that I've yet to fulfill in mfm threesomes with me being the single guy. At first, it was a fantasy just to be in a threesome, now I want to try various positions, places, ideas, etc....

Just as an aside, since I've mentioned swingers seeking fantasy fulfillment, I've noticed that newer couples seek fantasy fulfillment more than couples that have been swinging for a longer period of time. Experienced couples are more likely to seek singles or couples that they can be friends with outside of the bedroom as well. It makes sense that newer couples seek ideal fantasy lovers at the begginings. I think that the experienced couples still keep an eye out for rare experiences, but experienced couples usually look more at the person "as a whole person" than newer couples.

So, there's more to enjoying a mfm, even for the single male, than just having sex with a wife. At least in my case there is more to it.

Oh, about the "stunt dick" title. I wouldn't get upset over being referred to as that, but I'd hope to mean more to the couple than that. I'd like to be seen as a friend.

JacobSky--Since my wife has become aware of your writing she wants to see each post of yours. This thread interests her and your comments in particular excite her. She likes your ideas about the individual feelings that those involved in mfm's have for each other. The consideration and respect that they have for each other increases their ultimate pleasure she seems to think. Your comments still cause me some great times in the bedroom and I'm hoping you don't leave us.

I didn't get a reply to the last PM that I sent but I changed to a new computer and it may have been lost in the shuffle. Please feel free to PM Barbara if you like.

younger1

[Chicup]

I think part of the issue here is there that is something of a 'low class' feeling to the original post which is a turn off to us snobs in the bunch here. It also seemed to not make a lot of sense. I felt like I was reading something translated from Chinese using google's translator.

For the ladies: is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy the sex you get with your stunt dick.

Stunt dick issues aside, what does this mean? Is it possible for you to completely enjoy and want to enjoy sex with another male? Well I'd guess they may be incompletely enjoying it but I think its a non-statement.

For the fella: is it possible for you to completely enjoy the visual of another man completely turned on by you woman and totally fucking her and see her love every inch and in turn she totally fucks him dry.

This is just kind of crude. 'love every inch and in turn she totally fucks him dry.' You could have said 'She gives herself completely to him and in turn does her best to please him as well'. Maybe not the best example, I am not an errotic fiction writer, but 'love every inch' 'totally fucks him dry' seems like it belongs in a bathroom stall.

I think most if not all who indulge in mfm play would probaly be totally turned by whatever is happening.

Again I'm not sure what this means. Its a non-statement.

I'm not afraid to say I'm a snob when it comes to swinging. I don't like the stereotypical low brow sex maniac much of the general public seems to think of when they think about swingers, and this post only reinforces this stereotype.

As someone who has had his fair share of mfm's with his wife and had more then his fair share as a 'stunt dick', there is a lot of mutual enjoyment for different reasons in both.

[luv2buck]

I'm curious as to what everybody out there truely thinks about their mfm. I can say for us that has been one of the best sexual experiences we've ever had. .

Well, we had the good fortune to have a threesome partner who lived with us for around four years. I remember one nite when our threesome buddy suddenly just stopped in mid stroke. Looking back and forth at us, he suddenly sez:

"Hey, dya know what? I don't know about you but doing it like this with you guys has been the best and the most sex I've ever had in my whole life. Has it been like that for you, too? "

I respond saying "Oh fuck yeah, man. I can't believe how much fuckin' fun we been having!! I mean this been absolutely the best ever." and I think I repeated myself a couple times.

My wife, responding to what I'm saying, is nodding her head vigouriously in agreement and (with my cock still in her mouth) repeated hums "mmm mmmm" ( BJ mumble speak for "oh yes! oh yes!" )

Our housemate/ threesome buddy is nodding his head and saying "yeah, no shit....yeah, no shit..." and goes back to humping my wife.

That brief existential moment of awareness was like doing a reality check on acid - an outside confirmation that your perceptions of this incredible, overwhelming cosmic, transcendental event that you are feeling, seeing, experiencing is really happening and it's not just the elevated serotonin level fooling with your head.

So I'd say that for all three of us, the four years we were fucking together was the best time any of us ever had in bed.

best regards,

buck