When I was first introduced to the lifestyle I was 130lbs on a 5'91/2' frame. Today I am 230lbs and the same height. Believe me I understand how she feels but I will not allow that to prevent me from going to the clubs once in awhile. I am not going to say that I am 100% comfortable with my body because I am not, but I do know what I have to offer and it's sensational (if I may say so myself). Go to the club and sit in the corner and watch everyone. Then take her in a room and make love to her. She will want to go back again and again.
Just my late 2 cents
Shellie