We have been together for 18 years. I suppose we are experienced since we have been enjoying the LS for 8 years now (off and on). However, I do believe that in long term relationships couples wants, desires, & comfort levels can change and/or progress with time. That is how its been for us anyway. Which is why I used the term "suppose" in reference to being experienced. I enjoy the fact that with each encounter we've had along the way has been a learning experience in itself.