Help with Husband's Conflict

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Honestly?
Counseling.

Personally I think thats a bit extreme unless he is foaming at the mouth.

First time we full swapped, we did separate rooms, and that was a mistake. Afterwords I started to get really jealous, not mad at the Mrs. but just the visceral jealousy thats our genes talking when it comes to procreation. It ate at me for a week or two, I mentally 'justified' it since I had sex with his wife we were 'even', but it took a bit to bring out that green eyed monster and slay it.

After that two weeks I was able to kill the beast, and it hasn't come up again. If it still turns him on, odds are he will be able to overcome it himself, he just has his own dragon to slay.

[curiously sexy]

Anytime there is a lack of trust ... there is a lack of security behind it. I suggest that you talk to the one person that can help you to understand and be understood ... your husband. Argue, rant, do whatever it takes to get it out in the open ... understand and know that you are understood. Then you will know how to proceed.
Best wishes, and good luck.

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by Chicup

First time we full swapped, we did separate rooms, and that was a mistake. Afterwords I started to get really jealous, not mad at the Mrs. but just the visceral jealousy thats our genes talking when it comes to procreation. It ate at me for a week or two, I mentally 'justified' it since I had sex with his wife we were 'even', but it took a bit to bring out that green eyed monster and slay it.

After that two weeks I was able to kill the beast, and it hasn't come up again. If it still turns him on, odds are he will be able to overcome it himself, he just has his own dragon to slay.

So, how did you slay the beast? Did you handle that together or did you wrestle it out by yourself?