the more i read around on here, the happier i am that i'm here! it's odd to be a "single" (divorce in the works...we've been separated three years, he's finally moved onto live-in wife-to-be three) in a lifestyle that is essentially more of a "couples" thing. i'm still moving slowly, have an ad in sls, answering inquiries and basically trying not to make not major errors in judgement. thanks, leigh, for starting the ball rolling...and thanks to everyone else for your imput on the matter.
sushigirl, she of the unsolicited feedback that looks oddly like work...to some ;-p