My husband and I are new to the lifestyle. While we haven't actually had our first experience, we have been actively searching. Our searches have led us to numerous swinger's sites and on more than one of these sites we have discovered one of my old friends from childhood, including high school. So it has been many years since I have had contact with her. My question is, how do I approach her if at all? Since we are newbies, it would be nice to know someone else in our area who might be a good source of information. We both have pics in our profiles, but I'm not sure she would recognize me. Any thoughts or insight would be greatly appreciated.