Still in the haven't done it yet club. We talk about it, but mostly in the bedroom. We have talked about it since just after we met, and it just stays as a fantasy, for now.
Mrs Trill said she would "do it for me", but I refuse to let her "take one for the team". Only when we both want it, and feel comfortable with it will we even try.
As an aside, my ex and I talked about it, she even had a guy in mind. Now they are married, and we never did swing, or agree to her taking on a lover. Guess in the process of selcting a swing partner she fell in love with him, and never bothered with the "messy swinging thing".
So with that experience in the past, am taking it really slow this time, and keeping communication open and flowing. May never swing, but if it happens, cool, if not, nice fantasy.
M=cheap, F=Thrill