Leggz and I met on AFF last March: she had used the before to find men for a potential relationship; I was profiled as a single Dom looking for couples to spank. Talk about two disparate catagories.
We agreed early on that if you know what someone is like sexually, then a lot of who they are has been opened to you. Sounds like this guy, however, really wasn't mature enough to meet a woman seeking a relationship, period. And those guys are all over any intro website.
By the way, Tuesday (next) 06-20-06, our wedding will be at the Kern (CA)County clerk's office at 11:30 A.M. Drop by if you're in the neighborhood.