Hi,
I have an embarrassing problem, and the answer to it is probably that nothing but getting used to it will help. But I wanted to ask the extremely kind and insightful people on this site for any advice they might have.
My wife and I have been 'dabbling' in this lifestyle for a while now (about 4 years, I think), getting out to 'play' maybe once a month or a little less.
We started out with sharing fantasies and then soft swap, made the leap to full swap, and recently we have even had a separate room experience.
My problem is I just can't keep it up once I put on a condom. Foreplay gets me nice and hard, but when I roll that thing onto my nice proud erection, it begins to deflate. And it doesn't really come back. Additional foreplay, oral sex or whatever after I have the condom on just doesn't help.
I know that it is just me. I don't know what it is about me that makes that happen. Anybody else experience this?
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