Mr.Hyde

My wife did the same thing that your husband did except she skipped the whole making love thing and just fucked him. How did I feel about it? I totally understood it and actually thought it was fine given the circumstances. We were all sleeping in the same bed, completely naked, with her in between us, and we had just gotten through having sex all night. I couldnt exactly say that it was a shocker. I might have done the same thing if the shoe was on the other foot unless we had specific rules specifying otherwise.And I would have certainly entertained the thought if my wife had alluded to it right before we layed down beside one another. I guess I'm saying that you have every right to feel weird about it. Anybody has a right to feel weird about anything that they wish to. I just wouldnt necessarily treat him like you found out he was banging his secretary behind your back given the circumstances. This might just be one you want to put in the books under the never do again category and try to move forward. Hyde

We are in the same exact situation that you are. My advice would be to definitely use a condom w/spermicide. If the he finishes up inside her then check the condom for structural damage. If that seems too mechanical for her or if she has any doubts concerning leakage then she can always call her GYN and request the day after pill. It virtually carries no risk for most of the serious side effects attributed to routine oral contraceptive use and she can be 100% sure that she will not become pregnant. Other than that you should just consider keeping at oral/anal sex. Good Luck