I think the most common thread in the posts is that blackmail is a risk but not very probable. Hell, life is full of risk. Granted, I don’t like the blackmail thing but some of the risks and unknowns of swinging are exciting (who are we going to meet at the club tonight?). On a cautionary note, I think swinging outside our area code is probably good advice for us.
Those that we have met in the lifestyle have been quality fun people (your typical middle class neighbors with two or more kids). It was no surprise to us that the posts listed here were worthy thoughts, THANKS.
By the way, do you guys really think some paranoid enough to start a thread like this would list their real home city even if it is Chicago? Anyway, we visit Chicago area clubs for those near by. Thanks Again, S and J