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Wife sharing ... crossing the line?
jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I realize this thread has generated controversy and that is not my intention. We are still involved in the relationship with our benefactor and his associates. I find nothing sexier for my wife to return at 2 am after entertaining one or more of them. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
No one was being played. I was asking for opinions. It has been a long time since we last posted about this, and over the last few months, things have changed for the better. He has a group of friends who are all wealthy and like to share a group of select women, one of whom my wife has become a part of. We still love each other very much, and I have met several of the other husbands and wives, and most are very nice people. It has worked into a mutually beneficial relationship for all involved. A few couples could not take it and are no longer involved. It's not for everyone. But reality is reality. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
She loves the gifts that he has given her and doesn't want it to stop. They are now encouraging me to do things that I am not willing to do, and he is getting her to encourage me. For example, he wanted me to watch them have sex. He has gotten her to let him stop using condoms. They have let me on the bed with them, but I didn't really get to participate, just masturbate some. When he finished with her, she rolled over on top of me and sat on my face. I could tell from the way they were looking at each other this was something they had talked about in advance. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
You guys were right, this was a bad idea. Unfortunately we are in deep. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
I talked by email with the husband of the other couple that was there also, and he has invited them again also. I am a little bit suspicious about the idea that he may have had a camera planted in our rooms because the other husband had the same experience I did, his wife got called away both times they tried to play together. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We are going back next week to see him. He wants to give us some cash this time, because he knows we are having hard times financially. The cash thing would be very helpful, but I feel bad about taking it. But I want her to have things I can't give right now. I would prefer he just give her gifts I think but we are behind on the mortgage and I am out of work at the moment. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Basically he is an OK guy. Wife is not blown away by him, but is OK with him. He really treats her well, with gifts and things we cannot do on our own. I feel she deserves some of the finer things which at this time because of the economy I cannot give her on my own. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We were recontacted by him today, and he would like to bring us down again next month. He said he would like me in the room with them this time, so maybe thats a good thing. I explained to him some of our concerns, basically some of the things people here have raised, and he has said he did not have a video cam in our room. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
?? how ? we were behind closed doors from talking with my wife, he encouraged her to have sex with me when she came back to my room ... but she didnt want to because she wasnt fresh. I was so horny lol. From talking to the other husband, our host made the same request of his wife also, but the other couple went for it. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
yeah he kidded me about that night the next day and told me I could at least masturbate. He told me he appreciated me waiting and playing once we got back home, and not while my wife was "pulling booty duty". -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
We had some nice dinners with him and the other couple, but didn't get to enjoy any other activities together. We were separated most of the time. I actually spent more time with the other husband. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
i think there probably was something of a power trip going on with him. we have actually talked about that, and wondered how he knew to call her when he did, and interrupt us getting romantic. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Generally she was OK with it. He was very clear of his expectations. She felt bad for me not being to spend time with her, and she was a bit embarassed when she returned the night he called her from our room. I tried to get busy with her but she stopped me because she had just had sex with him, and didnt think I should have to have sloppy seconds. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
They spent most of the time with our host. He apparently was very horny or on viagra, because on of the evenings after he had already been with my wife that afternoon, he called on her to visit him again right as we were about to get frisky with each other in our room.That was pretty tough actually. Very bad timing, and I had to go to bed horny without her. -
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jandlvaldosta replied to jandlvaldosta's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
When we arrived he talked to us about our time with him. We would be allowed to do pretty much anything, including using the boat, access to the golf course, dining, drinks, etc. In return he would have access to my wife Laura when he wanted. In talking with the other couple they were basically given the same talk. He made it clear he was in charge and control, but in return we would all have a good time. He did ask that I not have sex with Laura while we were there, that for that time she would just be for him.