Thanks again for all the replies! There really are a lot of questions that we need to discuss. However, I really think that we may visit an on-premise club soon!!
Yesterday afternoon we were alone at the house and were playing around with her vibrator. She started using it on herself and I started stroking myself. She was getting extremely turned on, and at one point said something about seeing another man do that while we played. So, again, she dropped another hint...in my mind she did anyway.
We seem to both be in a mode of seeking things to enhance our sex-life. There is a good chance that I will at least suggest an on-premise club in the very near future...Valentine's Day? We are going to have that weekend alone so it may be a good time. We will at least start talking about it real soon!
Thanks again! And by the way, we have watched porn together and that is fun, but I think real people in real situations would be much more exciting for both of us!