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For me, foreplay can be verbal/visual. Kissing is not a requirement.

Hope you have fun Sunday!

A different perspective maybe. For me, reclaiming sex just was not a priority. My sex drive was lower than my hubby’s to begin with, so the idea of having sex right after having sex wasn’t always welcome.

I hope venting helped you feel better. Sounds like you need to let go of trying to make things happen with your wife’s friend, if you are going to respect your wife’s boundaries. As far as helping your wife work though her jealousy goes, I’d caution you to do that without having an endgame in mind. Otherwise, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment.

Ditto.

Cat’s out of the bag now!😂 If you have concerns about a strained life with your neighbors if things go south or fizzle out, maybe agree to be supportive of each other’s journey without being a direct part of it. If you two would like to break into swinging though, I’d caution you against assuming that you and your wife will be the same with other people as you are with each other, especially if seeing each other behave differently will result in hard in feelings between the two of you. Please discuss boundaries before jumping in.

Okay. I had to go back and read the post again to understand your question and her answer. What I still don’t understand is why you took it so hard. You indicate her response to you depressed and angered you. How come?

Angry? That’s a strong word. What was her answer?

I hope you continue sharing. It’s nice to see functioning poly relationships, especially when they’re secure enough to add in swinging spice.

I totally understand the appeal of interracial sexuality. It’s like art to me, visually, and I’d definitely want a purple man in the mix.

Glad you’re having a positive reentry!

Well said.

We understand what you mean. For us, the thought of getting back into the lifestyle has been an inspiration to be more consistent about exercise and making healthy eating choices. We want to be comfortable in our own skin.

Please let us know how that turns out.

Any suggestions on how to handle my bruised ego? Have sex with someone you know will satisfy you. and what is the proper amount of time to wait, before I begin looking for a new steady swing partner? Why wait a single second? No broken heart to mend, right? No time like the present to move forward.