Gangbanged in front of hubby

[BettyAnnMBSC]

However, picking up a group of "buddies" after showing them your wares will put you in a totally different situation that could easily be more like a gang rape than a gang bang.

I was not implying that "no doesn't mean no" or that you can't say "stop" whenever you want -- my point was exactly what you write here.... The situation is VERY different from one wherein you have invited some folks for a predetermined range of events with specific limits. Therein lies the dangers of a "real" gang-bang versus a "produced" one.

Remember, we in the lifestyle understand that there are certain rules -- when we extend our play beyond the lifestyle (such as to six drunk 20 somethings at the local bar) then we have a whole different set of rules to play by -- and their rules are not the same as ours...

Reality is -- when you are engaged in an experience with strangers that you have led on and teased in public -- your "no" may not be honored. It doesn't make that "right" - it makes this a possible reality to consider...

On a side but related idea then -- what is the difference between a "gang-bang" and "single female group sex"? Is an MMMF a "gang-bang" or foursome? Is "gang-bang" too poorly defined in swinger circles to be able to come to a conclusion....?

[PrtyinDuo]

We too have had this fantasy for quite some time now.And talking about it during sex makes for a steamy romp in the bed.Although we have been with cpls and single gals,we still have not been with a single guy,let alone 4-5 of them.And we deffinitely wouldn't go to a pool hall to find em. We usually use a group of guys that we both know and would trust in our fantasy play.EG: Were at a party last year and after a while we ended up in our tent and as we got it on,I started talking about bringing 5 of our friends in the tent for her to enjoy,(as well as me).Prob being,we would not bring up this subject to friends who dont swing or know we do,and havent found single males that we both feel that comfortable with yet.She luvs the feel of a hard'member' and we both truely believe that this is something that we'd enjoy participating in.She likes me to watch when we are with another cpl,and the thought of her getting fucked and sucking cock sure turns me on too. How does one find single guys that are on the 'up and up'?w/o jepordizing the discreetness we all enjoy.

[Vjklander]

We have done this with gangs of 2-6 me included. Watching is great fun but not as good as participating. Also, watching is a great way to recuperate after your turn.
J

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC
On a side but related idea then -- what is the difference between a "gang-bang" and "single female group sex"? Is an MMMF a "gang-bang" or foursome? Is "gang-bang" too poorly defined in swinger circles to be able to come to a conclusion....?

Perhaps the two could be defined (seperated?) in general terms by way of the respective amount of consideration afforded to the female participant? "Gang-bang" is quite a hard, even brutal, term, and could be perceived as carrying with it an implication that the female gets to be the recipient of whatever the men see fit to give her in the pursuit of their own satisfaction. Whereas "single female group sex" might be seen as being a case of multiple men giving full consideration to the female's pleasure as well as to their own?

Just a thought.

[darling]

Swinger clubs are great for the Gang-bang fantasy to come true. There are usually several single guys more then willing to participate. Just make sure they know up front that if and when you say stop, it means stop.

I actually had this fantasy and my husband helped set it up for me. I was in the room with 5 men including my husband and was enjoying myself after drinking some. I had my eyes closed, but then I opened them and suddenly panicked and ran out. I suffer a bit from claustephobia and it may have been some of that. Haven't tried it since.

[BettyAnnMBSC]

Perhaps the two could be defined (seperated?) in general terms by way of the respective amount of consideration afforded to the female participant? "Gang-bang" is quite a hard, even brutal, term, and could be perceived as carrying with it an implication that the female gets to be the recipient of whatever the men see fit to give her in the pursuit of their own satisfaction. Whereas "single female group sex" might be seen as being a case of multiple men giving full consideration to the female's pleasure as well as to their own?

I like your distinctions and tend to agree. I think that "gang-bang" is not really what many in our lifestyle want to experience as much as "single female group sex". I'm reminded too of another possible scenario that is entirely different from the two aforementioned: what about the Train? I vaguely remember a few of those at college parties...

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by BettyAnnMBSC
I'm reminded too of another possible scenario that is entirely different from the two aforementioned: what about the Train? I vaguely remember a few of those at college parties...

I'm not familiar with that, at least not under that name. How does the Train work?

[PrtyinDuo]

I'm not familiar with that, at least not under that name. How does the Train work?

WOW!! Never heard of "pullin a train"?Well,first ya need to find a 'willing' female.Then a group of guys that will do the deed.(the latter is much easier than the forementioned, )Then it is decided which one of the men will be the 'engine' and who will get to be the 'caboose',(or sloppy lasts)hehe...Then its just a matter of lining up and...er..a..well you get the idea from here!
Enjoy!!!

[BettyAnnMBSC]

How does the Train work?

Generally you start with a moderatlkey intoxicated young lady and a party full of very horny young men. (ie: any college dorm after about 7PM).

The young lady undresses and retires to the nearest bed (a couch will do) and the young men take a number or get in line.

There is usually no debate over who gets to go first because this young lady is generally already sloppy before the line forms. (at least I always was)

Each guy in line is bound by the unspoken guy law to not watch his peers screw her. They might see each others pee-pee -- and the girls present (if there are any) have a girl rule not to ever again mention that she was the entertainment. This because they didn't want to have sex themselves and their friend here is performing a service...

Each guy gets a ride on the train until everyone has had a turn or her dad comes home (when at her house) or one of her friends makes her get dressed and leave...

There is another unspoken guy law that each guy is to take only from 5-10 minutes -- get your rocks off and get out

This then differes from the gang bang and the single female multiple male scenarios in that each of the guys in the train scenario are to respect the privacy of the other guys getting laid.

sound fun????

[Brit_Pair]

Thanks to both BettyAnnMBSC and PrtyinDuo for the explanations. Not only was I unfamiliar with the term, but it turns out I also had no idea about the activity it described. Evidently, I should have gone to a different college. Or won myself a scholarship to study at an American college.

[PrtyinDuo]

Hey there Brit_Pair....Our pleasure...Only,we bet there was the same kinda things goin on across the pond,just don't know what they call a 'train' over there.LOL.....Enjoy!!

[fun_pairTX]

Before attempting either, I would arrange for a couple of LARGE sober gentlemen to be present and dressed, should the situation start to get out of hand. A little insurance never hurts.

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by PrtyinDuo
Hey there Brit_Pair . . . we bet there was the same kinda things goin on across the pond . . .

I suspect you're right. It's just that I never got so much as a sniff of a ticket to ride!

[PrtyinDuo]

It's just that I never got so much as a sniff of a ticket to ride!

Had a ticket to two rides in my time when I was young,but couldn't figure out how some allways rode first class,,,and I allways ended up in the CABOOSE!!!!

Enjoy!!

[Studly777]

All I can say from a male point of view is that they seem to always fall under the "you won't believe what happened" category. I have been involved in two and the both took me by surprise. I am sure the the female participants had it planned.

I can't wait for the next one...only I hope I know next time.