Group Sex using Ecstasy?

[danc694u]

Curiosity has gotten the best of me on this one. I've pondered for a couple of weeks, as how to put this on the board, without getting my butt flamed for it. So if you comment negatively, I'll take it at that. But, won't respond.

That said, anyone wishing to respond in private, just e-mail your comment to danc694u@yahoo.com or leave a private message using the link provided on this board.

Has anyone here tried Exstacy in a group sexual setting? If so, how was it? Would you do it again?

We admit to trying it twice over the past 2 years, in the privacy of our home...alone. But, I'm (David) curious about a group (3 or more) setting.

We're both well aware of the dangers involved in this.

David -- the anal half

[SJDUO]

We've never tried it but would love to just for the experience. Have no idea how to even get it in our area. Does it make the sex better? If you do try it with more people let us know how it goes.

[danc694u]

If there's ANYTHING that you & your spouse are hiding from each other. DON'T DO IT!

Here's a link that will answer your basic questions. http://ecstasy.org/qanda/index.html

[Stratecpl]

nope never tried it...don't drink or smoke either..haha we're a couple of those annoying health and fitness nuts.. Our only indulgence is excessive fucking..haha

[JIM & Jodi]

Wow, great website, Dancer

[danc694u]

Originally posted by Stratecpl:
<STRONG>Our only indulgence is excessive fucking..haha</STRONG>

Excessive?? You mean ya'll do it more than 6 times a day? I'm tired already LOL

[JustAskJulie]

I wouldn't label this as out of bounds but I don't think you really picked the appropriate forum to post it in initially. Because of that I have moved it to the "General Chat" forum, please feel free to continue the discussion here.

[ 12-17-2001: Message edited by: JustAskJulie ]

[danc694u]

Thank you Julie.

[NorthernILCouple]

I too would be really curious if any groups have tried this. I can just imagine the feeling of more people...probably would pass out!

[walrus0115]

I've tried it in a group setting back in college. This wasn't what you would call a swinging situation. Hell, we didn't even know about the swinging world then. We were just a bunch of college kids who did drugs together and sometimes had sex with each other. The X just got us all naked faster, and much hornier.

It was a fabulous experience but I think that the people involved made all the difference. We had done similar parties on LSD and had similar experiences. The extacy simply amplified the physical factor. However, as someone who took a great deal of acid in college, I wouldn't recommend doing X in a situation where you're going to meet a lot of new people or where most of the group has never taken major hallucinogens. Even though it's X you're still tripping. The emotional aspect of the drug is very powerful also. Make sure that everyone involved is very trusting of each other. That and that alone can make or break your trip.

Good luck though. I can tell you that if everyone is comfortable with it, the drug will add to an already erotic and fulfilling experience.

[danc694u]

Originally posted by walrus0115:
<STRONG>
I wouldn't recommend doing X in a situation where you're going to meet a lot of new people or where most of the group has never taken major hallucinogens.</STRONG>

Hallucinate ??? Sounds like someone bought the loaded kind. We know that some people lace it with acid or LSD. We've never gotten any that was though. Thank God.

It goes back to being sure of what you're getting. True X, does not produce hallucinations. It only stimulates the saratonin (spelling) uptake, which is common in most anti-depressants. Although, it is much more effective at the job.

[AtlantaCouple]

Regardless if the X is pure Walrus is right that this is not something that you want to do if you are meeting new people or if you are going to be around people who are not on it, if you have not done X a lot. I have seen several people freak out (if only for a short time) on X and it usually happens when the person A) takes too much at one time (or too powerful of a hit) B) are surrounded by too many people who they do not know well and thus feel they cannot talk or interact with them or C) tries to hide the fact that they are on X.

All I am saying is choose carefully who you try this with. If you take X and then try to swing with someone you don't know well, that don't know your on X, or someone taking X for the first time then it could lead to disaster of an evening.

Not trying to worry or discourage you but your reactions to others (and other's reaction to you) is different when on X (or any mind altering drug for that matter) than sober. I have had good friends that I wouldn't want to hang out with when they or I was on X because they bothered me when on X but I liked them alot when we were sober or drinking.

That is my take on the matter, hope you choose partners wisely and have a great experience.

[danc694u]

Originally posted by AtlantaCouple:
<STRONG>I have had good friends that I wouldn't want to hang out with when they or I was on X because they bothered me when on X but I liked them alot when we were sober or drinking.</STRONG>

Good points, all around. Your post states our concerns almost to a T.

We're just curious as to whether anyone has tried it in a "swing" setting. And if so, what was it like? The people you are with, will have a direct impact on the "trip".

Doing X in a club setting, straight or swing, is bordering on insane IMO.

[AtlantaCouple]

Doing X in a club setting, straight or swing, is bordering on insane IMO

I agree and diagree. I used to enjoy it in a dance club setting where I really did not plan on meeting and talking to alot of people nor did I really care what anyone there thought of me. But in a swing club, I think it would be rather unnerving. New people trying to talk to you and judging you (like it or not everyone looking to swing in a swing club is judging you... whether you are attractive or interesting enough to begin a relationship or just have fun with). I would not recommend it in a swing club unless you are not planning on looking for someone(s) to hook up with, or you (both)are really good at "handling your drugs".

I think it could be fun in a swinging situation at a comfortable location with people you have comfortable with who preferrably have done it (or similiar drugs) before or low doseages to someone who has never done it. I have found that will lower doseages of X you can frequently get the increased sensitivity and the intoxicating feeling without the brain-f*ck that can typically accompany your "trip". If you know any experienced swinger that do drugs or used to and might be into it, then I think it could be very fun. It all comes down to the same basically the same risks always associated with swinging. And like the rest of swinging, how the experience turns out will simply come down to who, when, where, and how much. Wwho you choose to do this with, when you do it, where to do it (can be very big in this situation), and how much X eveyone does relative to their tolerance of it. If you find the right balance with this issues, I sure it would be wonderful but if you get the wrong combinations it can make for a horrible night.

[danc694u]

Originally posted by AtlantaCouple:
<STRONG>I think it could be fun in a swinging situation at a comfortable location with people you have comfortable with who preferrably have done it </STRONG>

That's the only way we would even consider doing it. In our home or theirs. No club for sure.

I have a problem with large crowds (panic attacks...sometimes) So the club setting and total strangers are definitely out of the question.

Before you ask, the panic attacks are rare, and are generally relieved with a couple of quick shots of Tequilla

David