ilcouple92 15 Posted January 29, 2010 Hi all, We would like to know how long were you together before you started swinging? We have been married for 17 years and he is 38 and she is 37. What were your feelings the first time you swinging? Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,536 Posted January 29, 2010 Hi all, We would like to know how long were you together before you started swinging? We have been married for 17 years and he is 38 and she is 37. What were your feelings the first time you swinging? We were together close to ten years. Feelings on the first time? WOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! sums it up well Quote Share this post Link to post
starryeyes 23 Posted January 29, 2010 We have been together for 26 years and started 11 years ago. It's been great too!!!! Quote Share this post Link to post
FitCpl30s 17 Posted January 29, 2010 For us it started 3 years into our relationship and that was 15 years ago. Quote Share this post Link to post
exploringRM 305 Posted January 30, 2010 We were together 25 years and have been swinging for a year and 3 months! Our feelings the first time were aprehension coupled with wohoo!! We have alot of fun this past year and look forward to more! (House party tomorrow night!) Quote Share this post Link to post
two4youinswva 3,067 Posted January 30, 2010 We were together about 7 years when we started. I guess our main thought after the first time was "When can we do this again?" Quote Share this post Link to post
friskyous 17 Posted January 30, 2010 Married in '74 first MFM in '76.. Quote Share this post Link to post
spvcouple 123 Posted January 30, 2010 My bride said "I do" in 1979. After 25 years of marriage we started playing with others and have never looked back. Now 31 years of wedded bliss (yeah right, we all have some problems from time to time) and we have been "in the lifestyle" for 6 years. We went through the whole range of emotions the first couple times. But always talked about each encounter afterwards. It must be good, we always go back for more. Quote Share this post Link to post
LFM2 1,481 Posted January 30, 2010 Dave and I were married for 22 years before we started swinging. The first time was simply AMAZING!! We've never looked back but have wondered why didn't start earlier! Quote Share this post Link to post
rick181au 83 Posted February 1, 2010 We were together 18 years and married 15 when we started swinging, it was her first time with another guy (I took her cherry when she was 19), we have now been married 47 years and are still very much in love. Quote Share this post Link to post
twoforone100 45 Posted February 2, 2010 We had been together for 9 years before we started swinging. Two years after that we got married... playing for another 2 since then. Quote Share this post Link to post
larrynd 15 Posted February 2, 2010 Have been married 35 years, started 18 years ago by sharing wife with her girlfriend then with another couple. Still very much in love and enjoying life everyday. Quote Share this post Link to post
kewlcitycpl 16 Posted February 2, 2010 Married 24 years now and swinging only a little over a year now and loving it. Best thing we ever did for our marriage and sex life Quote Share this post Link to post
SaSsyNsWeEt 41 Posted February 2, 2010 Married 5 years but we spoke openly about the desire to swing before we said "i do". Quote Share this post Link to post
PAHornyCpl 15 Posted February 4, 2010 Married in 1994 (15 yrs). First FFM experience 1999 (10 yrs). Woohooo! (Dream cum true) First MFM experience 2001 (8 yrs). Not so sure about this. Attended first swingers club 2001 (8 yrs). OK I can handle this. You decide when we became swingers and that is your answer. The kicker is...it was my idea and I became the apprehensive one. Mr. PAHornycpl Quote Share this post Link to post
sandkats 29 Posted February 4, 2010 We started swinging in elementary school. I can still recall how cute she looked standing by the swingset. She had a look of apprehension. She wanted to do it, anyone with a set of eyes could see that, but she was nervous. I walked up to her and asked her if I could show her how to do it. She looked around to see if anyone was watching. Satisfied that everyone else was occupied doing their own things, she looked at me, then the ground, and quietly nodded her head yes. I showed her how to hold the chains and to get started by pushing of the ground. Then, I showed her how to "pump" by leaning back and pulling on the chains. Her first few "pumps" were tentative, but she was a natural and she had a certain flair that communicated she was in her element. Her laughter, and squeals of delight reverberated across the entire playground that life changing day. We have been swinging in it's various forms ever since. S Quote Share this post Link to post
CXXC 435 Posted February 4, 2010 We started playing solo after 9 years of marriage. It was not until after our 10th anniversary that we started playing as a couple. Been happy and enjoying it every time. Quote Share this post Link to post
bbarnsworth 2,536 Posted February 5, 2010 We started swinging in elementary school. I can still recall how cute she looked standing by the swingset. She had a look of apprehension. She wanted to do it, anyone with a set of eyes could see that, but she was nervous. I walked up to her and asked her if I could show her how to do it. She looked around to see if anyone was watching. Satisfied that everyone else was occupied doing their own things, she looked at me, then the ground, and quietly nodded her head yes. I showed her how to hold the chains and to get started by pushing of the ground. Then, I showed her how to "pump" by leaning back and pulling on the chains. Her first few "pumps" were tentative, but she was a natural and she had a certain flair that communicated she was in her element. Her laughter, and squeals of delight reverberated across the entire playground that life changing day. We have been swinging in it's various forms ever since. S Very nicely done! Quote Share this post Link to post
NCfuncouple98 367 Posted February 6, 2010 Our 10th Anniversary was our first swinging experience. That was about a year and a half ago. We've been together 14 years, known each other 20. Quote Share this post Link to post
ghostcouple 15 Posted February 7, 2010 We were married for 12 years before we started swinging. Quote Share this post Link to post
willyoats 324 Posted February 11, 2010 We were about 25 years into marriage when we started swinging together. We had done some solo stuff before that. I knew about her flings and she about mine. It was a turn on fo rme; she was indifferent about mine. There was just of bit of guilt, anxiety, etc. about those exploits (until we told each other about what had happened), although not a bit of resentment or bad feelings on the part of the partner who was left out. When we started swinging, all of the guilt, all the sneaking around, all of the time stolen from the other partner went away. And how did we feel aabout that? It was great fun having sex with other people and it was completely guilt-free. In other words, pretty close to perfect. Quote Share this post Link to post
todesireu 16 Posted February 15, 2010 Been together for 18 years, married 16 and swinging introduced at 6 years after we were married. Quote Share this post Link to post