By
NYFlirts
We desperately need expert help!!
We are going to a really big party in 3 weeks... it's a party we've been looking forward to for over a year. A TON of super hot people are going including about 10 couples we've talked to and/or briefly met, but desperately want to spend more time with. A few of them have even invited us to pre and after parties!
Well, here's the problem: In addition to all these couples we really want to focus on meeting, there are 3 couples going that we're good friends with. We really like them, but they tend to be reserved and clingy. We worry that they will be shy and want us to be their introductions to people and/or expect that we will just be available to play with them.
We hate to say this, but we don't want these other couples messing with our mojo and dragging us down. We want to be super social butterflies that flutter from here to there to there without any reservation or baggage.
We don't want to ignore or offend these other couples (we love hanging out and playing with them on private dates) but we also don't want to have to worry about watching over them, making sure they are having a good time, worrying that they are being left behind, worrying that they are upset that we're not giving them more attention or inviting them to parties that we're being invited to.
Hey, maybe we'll be the ones that aren't having any luck meeting new people and they will, and then we'll wish they were bringing us along... the shoe will be on the other foot.
So, what would you do in this situation? Would you hint in advance that you'll be off on your own, doing your own thing that may not include them? Would you wait it out and see if they are clingy and then try to find a way to hint that you want to do your own thing (this is SUPER hard and didn't work for us last time with one of these couples that REALLY wanted to play with us at a party). Or, are we acting like high school kids trying to be too popular at the expense of others and we should include our friends in the stuff we do?