Wish us luck

Dog and I have decided to take the plundge into the wadding pool end of swinging. hee hee

Seriously, we will be in the beautiful city of Toronto the 25/26 of August and have decided to go to happy Hedonist while we are there. Dog said if I feel ready lets do it. He seems pretty excited as I am.

They say women can dress as sexy as they want to. What in good lords name does that mean? will there be naked or nearly naked women there? I hate not knowing what to expect. I am not sexy, I am....well prettylady. I don't usually do sexy. I do cute and cheeky. I would feel stupid in stilletos and micro mini. Look I can't even spell stilletos, at least I think it is spelt wrong. I sleep in flannel pants and baby T's. I live in karate or kickboxing pants...do you think they would pass as sexy? Dog says when I am in my gi he wants to tear it off me because I look so damn hot in it.

My idea of bar close are a pair of jeans and a boy beater. Sexy as that maybe I don't think that is what the clubs have in mind.

Good grief I think I need to shop somewhere other then a sports store.

Some one help me

Your friend,

Prettylady

Oh Pretty Lady, I feel like a friend is going off to college; Good Luck! Pretty soon, it'll be me and Mrs. Little Bird: She's already set something up for us with a girlfriend and the girlfriend's BF.

But you're the first from the class of June 2006 (our signup date on this forum!) to take the plunge. You're the right one to go first. If some creep makes you uncomfortable and gets grabby, you can bounce him off a wall a few times... like the ball on a racquet ball court. Hee hee!

Good luck, Sweetie, to both you and Dog from me and the Mrs.

Let us know if it's a possitive experience. And remember, you don't HAVE to swing to make the night a success. You decide what a successful night is.

Mr. and Mrs. Little Bird

PS Gi pants and a white T-Shirt = HOT and SEXY!

Prettylady.....you're gonna have a fun time. A sexy outfit is anything you feel sexy in For Tammy, it's a denim mini skirt, low cut v-top and FMP's(fuck-me-pumps facelick ). Other times it's a leopard print skirt, sheer black top....losing the bra on the way....and FMP's. Gotta have the FMP's Tammy can't wear the stilletto's....so her's have a little fatter heel.

Don't go in anything that makes you feel too uncomfortible. It's all about your attitude and how sexy you feel. When you feel sexy, you'll exude it and everyone else will take notice of it too

Brett

Good luck Prettylady, and like Brett said, go in what you feel the most sexy in. Usually, if a woman feels sexy she gives off the sexy vibes and people notice.

You mentioned sports clothes, and even though it may seem obvious, Sweats are against the law. In fact if you wear sweats within a week of going to the club it will probably kill that sexy vibe. Well, maybe it isn't that bad, but if a woman even tells me she owns sweats the mental picture would ruin it for me.

Woops, gut stuck for a minute there, can you tell I don't think sweats are sexy. Just remember to go expecting to have fun, don't have a lot of expectations beyond that, but be prepared for anything. That is always our moto anyway. Have a good time, I am sure I don't need to tell you, but we expect a full report when you get back.

Don't worry GT I don't own sweats. I own shorty shorts and baby T's. LOVE those baby T's . I have had comments about how some of the guys like to watch me work out because they are sure to get a little peak. Thats not the point, I just hate to have my legs constricted when doing squats. But I am careful to wear cute undies when I have my shorts on.

Thanks everyone for the support, I will get back to you about the club. It isn't until aug 26 that is when we are in TO. I can't wait.

Your friend,

Prettylady.

Prettylady in tight jeans and a boy beater? Yeah, my mind's eye sees that and likes it ....... I think sexy is as sexy does. Muffy exudes sexuallity whether dressed to the nines or schlepping around in her walking shorts and T shirt. Methinks that it depends less on what you wear and more on who you are. Too bad Toronto is so far away, I would pay the price of admission to see PL, dressed up or dressed down. facelick

Chip

To me, sexy is an attitude, and aura about you, not the clothes. But for the record, tanktops and jeans are everyday porn for me. THAT is sexy.

The key words here are "can dress sexy" not "has to dress sexy". So I'd say wear what you want to. Just check with them to see if there is a dress code like "no jeans". You want people to want you for who you are, not who they want you to be.

Mr. WS

Good luck prettylady. Tomboy chic!

Bigtime nieve question here.

Myself and the Misses have been curious too about this stuff. (She's more interested then me) We don't know a thing about it, or a soul who participates! I can't even believe I'm on this site!

We have great sex but have been getting a little board. What is the likelyhood of finding a couple that we both will be attracted too? To be honest I had lost my virginity with my wife as a teen and have been a one woman man my entire life, ditto with my wife.

How to put this? I can vision some real premature awkwardness and is this something folks have getting started?

Any reply is appreciated

 

How to put this? I can vision some real premature awkwardness and is this something folks have getting started?

 

Any reply is appreciated

Oh hell ya awkwardness is something we feel. This is my first real stab at it. I am nervous but really excited as well.

This is a great place to start and look around. Get comfortable with the idea before you explore and physical relationship. I am a quick learner. I had the idea suggested to me by Dog and I jump right on this website. Learnt alot about dos and don'ts had all my questions answered honestly.

Sometimes with brutal honesty sometimes like in this thread with a little light hearted play, but my concerns are always put to rest.

Good luck in your search for answers

Your friend,

Prettylady

When ever I go out, I go out in what is comfortable and makes me feel sexy. Girl, the others have said it, it's what's inside that radiates more than the clothes.

I wear a tank top and jeans sometimes and get hit on just much when I am in a mini and a see through top. Its the person who is outgoing and fun who gets attention I find.

Like someone else mentioned I would check with the club for a dress code first.

Because it's summer alot of people at the club we attend are wearing shorts and tank tops.

Have fun, relax and enjoy yourself.

Pretty Lady,

My wife, Bad Sandy, is working up to going to Pleasure Palace or Night Moves here in Tampa. I am ready but she needs more time. Wish you the best. You must do what you feel comfortable doing and wearing. We go to Caliente and Paradise Lakes and Bad Sandy gets to dance and wear sexy clothing. Nothing beats a woman wearing ___me pumps. Do something different to suprise your man. Order stuff online or go to the store and try stuff you would never think you would look good in. You will suprise yourself.

Anyway, enjoy yourself and be confident that you will be the center of attention in a great way.

All the best.

Danny.

Good luck Prettylady, we expect a full report when you get back.

Dito !!!

Hey Pretty Lady Happy Hedonist believes in allowing you to wear what you feel sexy in...course right now I can't get out of my head your idea of short, shorts and a baby tee...oh yeah that would work.

People do wear jeans to the club, not the majority but they do wear them.

Many of the women wear short skirts, tight dresses and cleavage popping out all over the place.

The club can be pretty raunchy, they are known for this and they have a ladies only dance around 11:30....

Be warned single men are there on most nights now...they have guidelines to follow, if anyone bothers you just let the door staff know...or us as we will be there too....

...The club can be pretty raunchy, they are known for this...

prettylady - This doesn't sound like the right kind of place for your first experience. Any other options?

prettylady, as far as what you wear I cannot add anything more than the others have said. Go in what you feel sexy in and sexy will radiate off of you no matter what you are wearing.

But I did want to add my own personal good luck and have loads of fun. I am sure you and Dog both, will have a great time.

Darling, you look sexy in your SLS pictures...anything you add will only make it better... go for it... enjoy the fun!

So did you pick an outfit yet? Inquiring minds want to know.

2jersey while HH maybe raunchy it was also the first club I ever went to. It can be a little intimidating for some but for others it is a great fit. Pretty Lady is prepared with the the info on the club. ( Happyhedonist dot com)

Some of the other clubs in the area unfortunately have no action or connection factor what so ever. Yet they all have their positives.

Each club night is what you make of it yourself and the people you meet.

I am at a lose as to what to wear, Dog gave a resounding YES!!!! to each outfit I showed him I was thinking of wearing.

It is hard to choose an outfit when you don't know exacly what to expect.

both outfits have mini skirts. one is a short grey/green, with a red top. The other is a black and white kilt with a white tank.

I will likely go for the green skirt. We will just have to see. Maybe I will bring both and change half way through the night. or maybe I should just go naked. then I don't have to worry about what to wear.

Your friend,

Prettylady

Sounds like you will have no problem fitting in at the club prettylady. This weekends theme is nylon shorts...keep that in mind when dressing. I usually have on a mini skirt and top that I leave open....changing is also common at the club.

I vote for "naked"... but then, I always was a minimalist.

when I first read that on the website all I could think of was the shorts from the seventies with the white piping around the seams. I can't find the sexy in that.

Shirt open eh....So a nice or cool bra is in order. will keep that in mind

Your friend,

Prettylady

I say wear what gets dogs heart pumping and blood flowing sexy can also mean whatever you feel most comfortble in.

Dog and I have decided to take the plundge into the wadding pool end of swinging. hee hee

Seriously, we will be in the beautiful city of Toronto the 25/26 of August and have decided to go to happy Hedonist while we are there. Dog said if I feel ready lets do it. He seems pretty excited as I am.

They say women can dress as sexy as they want to. What in good lords name does that mean? will there be naked or nearly naked women there? I hate not knowing what to expect. I am not sexy, I am....well prettylady. I don't usually do sexy. I do cute and cheeky. I would feel stupid in stilletos and micro mini. Look I can't even spell stilletos, at least I think it is spelt wrong. I sleep in flannel pants and baby T's. I live in karate or kickboxing pants...do you think they would pass as sexy? Dog says when I am in my gi he wants to tear it off me because I look so damn hot in it.

My idea of bar close are a pair of jeans and a boy beater. Sexy as that maybe I don't think that is what the clubs have in mind.

Good grief I think I need to shop somewhere other then a sports store.

Some one help me

Your friend,

Prettylady

Hey Prettylady, even though we have never meet, to me you are sexy...Because you are very active and fit, you are the kind of girl "woman" that is not affraid of a little dirt "I assume", you probably look awesome "Sexy" in a pair of jeans and a T-shirt, which is all you need, you are sexy because you are true to yourself.

Let us know how the Hedonist play date turns out in Toronto.

Magnum

hi,preyty lady, shure hope you and dog have a great time. mrs.fun always takes diffrent outfits to change into. i prefer naked with a smile. hope you tell us a little about the adventure

Dog and I had a great time. We met up with a wonderful couple who showed us the ropes. Dog couldn't stop commenting on how beautiful her eyes were. He was so cute that he made me blush when he smiled at me. Silly girl that I am. :rollseyes

I think they were amused by how easily I was shocked at the women only dance.

I have never felt so sexy. I am looking forward to going again.

This time I wont be so easily embarassed.

I really can't explain what a fantastic time I had.

This was only our first meeting with this couple so it was a get to know you night out. so no dirty details for you this week.

Sorry guys.

But this girl is ready for step two....what is step two?

Your friend,

Prettylady

Step 2 is whatever you decide you are comfortable with...we are both glad you enjoyed your first experience at a club. Remember there are so many others around to try and see where your fit is.

P.S. we are both still blushing from all the compliments. You are a wonderfully suited couple, so much in common and clearly very much in love. Dog is very well spoken and lots of interesting experiences (did I mention a good mind is a great turn on for me (female)). He loved your shyness and kept saying there is a fire in there just waiting to erupt. He enjoyed dancing with you.

Congrats, a good first time out is always a plus. Appears you have some wonderful teachers to show you the ropes. Have fun, that is why we are all doing this!