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    Default Re: Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries

    Quote Originally Posted by ArianaAR View Post
    Swinging is something extra, not something that should ever have more power than our actual relationship.
    Very well put, Ariana. I understand totally where you are coming from and what you are saying. This is exactly how we view it, also. And you have come a long way.

    Without hearing him speak in his own defence, your boyfriend seems like a bit of a jerk. Or, at least pretty obsessed with swinging. This isn't totally uncommon, though, judging by all the married guys with "wives who don't understand" who write us every week. It is something that the two of you will have to wrestle down and come to some understanding on or you are going to have a lot of trouble.

    And please don't get me wrong. In spite of all my preaching to you, if I was in your position I would feel exactly the same way, but with less patience and grace.

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    Default Re: Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries

    Quote Originally Posted by ArianaAR View Post

    While I get that I'm asking him to sacrifice in that I need him to hold back right now because I'm not comfortable,
    Sacrifice...???? I would hardly call that a sacrifice. It should be something he would just want to do.

    Dump him girl. He's using you as a ticket for fun.

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    Default Re: Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries

    FUSE...
    I know I was born. I know that I'll die. The in between is mine. (PJ)

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    Default Re: Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries

    Thanks man I may not deserve it, but I'll take it.

    Hey, I went to perv your SLS profile and couldn't find it using a membername search for Lovinall. Is it still there?
    Through every dead and living thing, Time runs, like a fuse. -- Jackson Browne

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    Default Re: Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries

    Hey, you can perv me anytime. We didn't renew it and I need to change our profle here. Too much like dating, IMO. Clubs are more our thing but we may try Swing Lifestyle again just so I can perv your profile.
    I know I was born. I know that I'll die. The in between is mine. (PJ)

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    Default Re: Is it fair? Watching to make sure SO doesn't violate rules/boundaries

    The rules are rules for a reason. It's to allow everyone to enjoy the situation. If he's not sticking to the rules you agreed upon, you should probably stop and figure out if it's what BOTH of you really want. It should be a mutual decision, not one sided. In respecting the rules, you are also respecting each other.

    Good luck.

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