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We are just curious as to whether the MFM threesome experience plays as big of a role in swinging as it has developed for us?

 

Lately, it has become very evident to us that Mrs and I have been really enjoying the MFM experience. Neither of us are bi-sexual or bi-curious and there has never been any request from Mrs of secretly having a fantasy to see it. She just really enjoys all the attention of having myself and another guy playing with her at the same time. It seems this has become our main staple in our participation in the lifestyle, and we have seemed to have jumped on board to this experience.

 

We have been actively involved in the LS for over two years now. From early on, it became evident to both Mrs and myself, that I really enjoyed seeing her enjoying herself with another male, and it was a big turn on for her to want me to participate in an MFM with the other guy. We have been enjoying the MFM experience for almost 18 months now and have been enjoying the moment more or less on a weekly or bi-weekly basis. Fortunately, almost all of these experiences have been with the same guy, the male of the first couple we became active with. The female of couple has not really been interested in couples play for several months and is not as eager for sex as the 3 of us are. So, we have been able to take advantage of the situation.

 

Just recently, we had another MFM experience with the male of another couple that we had previously been involved with. Even though we do not play as couples anymore, both Mrs and myself have kept in contact with the couple. The male is a great guy and my wife always enjoyed him so we planned a threesome get together for quite some time. Finally, it happened and it was everything we all imagined and want to continue if we are all in agreement and the moment presents itself again.

 

We have even gone so far as the be in contact and met with a single male as a potential candidate for an MFM now and then.

 

Has anyone else gone this route and have seemed to be more interested in this form of swinging at some point in their involvement in the LS?

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When we were a couple, we most often played in threesomes as well...both mfm and fmf, but usually mfm. Couples were too hard to click with as a foursome and my husband truly enjoyed the dynamic of sharing me and seeing me pleased.

 

So, yes. We were a couple that quite enjoyed threesomes and due to the abundance of single men (yeah!) we had a very nice selection :)

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Your experience is very much like what my wife and I have gone through. We were seduced into swinging in the mid 80's by a couple who were our best friends. It was totally unexpected and one of the best thing that ever happened to us. At that time my wife was not working and our friend was working nights so they met very often to play during the day. Knowing that she was having sex with him was a real turn on for me too. Although we continued to meet with them as couples and flirted a lot, the wife didn't seem that interested in me so we had sex only a few more times. The couple eventually got divorced. We are still friends with both of them, and our interaction with the husband, our best friend, transitioned into mainly MFM threesomes which we all really enjoy. Over the years my friend and I have started playing with each other, often but not always with my wife present. So we are now in a relationship where my wife and I play with him either in a threesome situation or each of us with him alone. It is a perfect situation for us.

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I have done my duty in several mfm's. My wife loves them.. Me not so much I prefer the fmf or same room couple swap. But a woman like my wife that is good with sex can easily without a doubt wear out two or three men in a evening. I am no slouch in bed, but I can see the allure of a woman to the mfm. They can satisfy more than a couple of guys. Its just a question weather or not she has the energy to do it.

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At our club in Indy, singles were allowed in on some nights. We always held open the possibility of MFM, and it did occur about half of the time. My wife generally thought that singles were more thoughtful (and grateful) than marrieds. I just liked the whole scene where I could watch her being pleasured and then finish her off myself.

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It just so happens that the MFM is our favorite but we will play with a couple.

 

It has been really hard to find the 4-way connection. And hard for me to find women I am attracted to. We are going on 5 years in the LS. It has taken a good four years to be completely comfortable with everything. Our preferred play is mfm or mfmmmmm lol. Wifey can take on more than one without problem. Seven in one night at a LS party. But it is typically a mfm with four regulars that she likes to play with and the I like to hang out with. I think the most exciting part is the anticipation, when she comes downstairs once she is all dolled up and we have to wait til she gives me the signal to start touching her. It's game on then lol.

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We've done the gambit but simply prefer couples.

 

MFM I view as sort of the "easy route" for obvious reasons but we don't mind putting the work in. I don't view it as really a good comparison unless the question were posed as...

 

You could have a MFM FMF or FMFM with the "perfect" couple/singles, which would you prefer? In that vein for us, FMFM all the way.

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Still being very new to this, we talked about just having a man join us. As all of you probably found when you started, you get many men writing you (with pictures). We almost let this happen out of frustration. My husband said he was fine sharing with a man but I didn't think it was a good idea to have our first being a man. I have written before that I have had more experience with this lifestyle before I met my husband and have been with 2 guys. We have been open about my past and my husband always asked if we did this or that. Yes we have watched many porn movies and I have told him that just like most things we have watched reality is rarely the same. Most of the mmf that I experiences was more of one guy then the other. Or doing oral to one while the other one was busy. I don't want to sound like I have done this so many times, it was just a few times. I feel even if we continue just with couples I would like my husband to join with me in any combination. Still being new we are still learning and growing.

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My wife and I prefer MMF more than FFM situations. While we typically don't interact with couples when we do it's always the same room. Our turn-on or kink of you will is watching each other having sex with someone else. She also likes watching me and the other guy swapping oral play as well so for us having another female involved generally doesn't work out so well. Just our preference.

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MMF was our first experience, and still my favorite. Dh likes to watch me get penetrated, A LOT. I enjoy having something to do with my mouth lol. By far my favorites are men who aren't squicky about incidental MM contact, or better yet bi friendly. Thinking back on our first time I laugh, it was like there was a line across my belly, "you shall not pass!"

 

But I really do enjoy mmf :) At this point I am also getting more comfortable touching other women, so I'm looking forward to ffm in the future.

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We did FMF once because he wanted to have that experience. It was fine but he was sort of like "meh, alright" afterward. He has offered to do MFM for me but I don't think I'd like quite so much attention -- not just sexually but even socially I just don't like an extreme amount of attention focused on me, it makes me uncomfortable. We're into MFMF all the way :)

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We have only met couples but we discussed mfm. During our play we have done mfm with me doing oral to my husband while the other guy was busy on me. We have talked about having a true mfm with my husband doing the anal to me while the other guy is in the front. We have seen it in films online but I think its not that easy to do. We are both normal average size.

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Wife and I first play was back in early 90's with only MFM. Most recent have been with couples. I must say both have been very exciting. But I personally have enjoyed the MFM a lot more. I love it when she is moaning and enjoying herself with another guy. And the best part, she never forgets about me either... it's like she really loves the attention. And for me it's not as tiring. Even when we did the couple thing, when the other female took a break, it was awesome doing her at same time with other male also, and you could tell the sexual level got knocked up a few notches lol.

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We don't seek out single men or one's who have a "hall pass" and rarely will play with them. In fact the only time we've had a MFM so far as been at a club when we were the only couple there and decided on the spur of the moment to have the Mrs. play with one just so both of us didn't go home empty-handed.

 

While I enjoy seeing her with other guys, at the risk of sounding selfish, there is simply nothing directly in it for me. As a result, we much rather prefer the level-playing field of MFMF or since Mrs. Fours is very much Bi, even MFF since we then will both have other partners we can actively play with. Since there is always a more than ample supply of SM's at clubs gravitating towards MFM would be, as Chicup suggested, an easy goal and finding couples does require more effort especially for the man, but we find the payoff much more satisfying.

 

So to us, MFM is more a contingency position and thus plays a very small and rare part of our swinging.

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As the occasional extra guy in an mfm, I really enjoy giving the lady as much attention as she can handle. It can truly be a fun thing I think and the couples I've been with seem to enjoy it. It helps when both male are not afraid to touch each other so now and then (accidentally or intentionally). I found that men love to watch me penetrating their wives and once I've orgasmed they love to go in for sloppy seconds.

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With her straight and me orally bi, we pursue single guys. At first, I was happy to be able to enjoy 2 of my favorite things at once. As time progressed, I found myself enjoying how 2 guys with some skills and attention can bring J to heights neither of us imagined. J loves the feelings. The guys we see walk away feeling like the worlds best lovers. Strange how things fall into place.

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We LOVE MFM! Prefer it! She's straight and just loves having two or more men pleasing her and her pleasing them at the same time. I enjoy watching her, she's "my favorite porn star" and participating and focusing on her is so much fun. We have and still do play with couples that we are friends with, especially those couples that are into foursome play as opposed to wife swapping. I'd rather fuck my wife than any other woman but fucking the other wife who loves going down on my wife at the same time is Hot Hot Hot!

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It just so happens that the MFM is our favorite but we will play with a couple.

 

MFM's are our absolute favorite too. We have pretty much stopped playing with couples. Both my husband and I love it.

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Sue and I met a couple at a resort in Key West. They approached us with swinging. As her husband, Jim, said, she is bi, I'm not. Sue and I weren't married yet but talked a great deal about the invitation. Sue just couldn't see herself doing another woman so we turned down the offer. We tried to assure them, I would love to do his wife and Sue would do Jim in a nano-second. Jim turned up in our city on business, invited us for drinks. We all met, the swinging topic came up and with some talking, drinks, we decided to start with an MFM. I saw Sue at a sexual level I had not seen before. We did a couple of more, and they were great. Sue was able to orchestrate them with guys we met at nice bars and restaurants or resorts. Then, with that experience, we went to a club and tried the couples thing. Side by side, adjacent beds, separate rooms, we tried various combinations. They were fun but not the same level of heighten pleasure. Our goal now is to find more orgy like activity, larger groups, at least multiple couples perhaps with a few extra single guys thrown in. In the mean time, we enjoy MFM activity although Sue seems to be interested in trying MMFM or a total GB.

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My wife and I tend to do more MFM's than any other sort of swing activity. In part, this is because it's easier. :)

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Looks like this weekend my wife has planned a mmf for us. I really do not get that much out of it but will do it cause I love her. I think we had plans to meet them as a couple but his wife is out of town and I really wanted to play this weekend and well.. it looks like her night to shine.

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