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So my wife and I have engaged in a couple mfm and some mfmf. In each case when my wife gets on top to ride the condom comes off. The last time we were engaged in a mfm and she was riding him the condom came off and he was cumming at the same time. As he pulled out we noticed the condom was off and he had cum inside of her.

 

Anyone else have this problem? My wife has a very hard time cumming on another guy and riding them is the only way for her to get there, but the dang condom always comes off.

 

Any suggestions? We have tried different brand and sizes.

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I can't say the specifics of your situation, but I'll share a bit of my own experience...

Let me start by saying I'm not exactly hung like a horse. If a loose fitting condom were part of the problem, then I'd have experienced this problem.

I have not.

In fact, I've only experienced a condom coming off more than once on a single occasion. The woman could REALLY clench, and right when she got close and her muscles clenched, and as I stroked out she held onto the condom. I felt it, but in the heat of the moment it took me a couple strokes to break momentum. By that time it was completely off and pushed inside her.

So, we started over... and again the same thing at the same point. The 3rd time we added some lube, even though she was plenty wet. The lube seemed to do the trick, and she was able to cum hard without pulling the condom off.

 

I don't know that this is the same situation for your lady, but adding a bit of lube might be a cheap thing to try. If success, great. If not, then you're not out much...

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So my wife and I have engaged in a couple mfm and some mfmf. In each case when my wife gets on top to ride the condom comes off. The last time we were engaged in a mfm and she was riding him the condom came off and he was cumming at the same time. As he pulled out we noticed the condom was off and he had cum inside of her.

 

Anyone else have this problem? My wife has a very hard time cumming on another guy and riding them is the only way for her to get there, but the dang condom always comes off.

 

Any suggestions? We have tried different brand and sizes.

 

Is this just happening with a particular male or all of her male playmates? If it is just a particular playmate, he might need to find a brand of condom that fits better. If this is happening with more than one male playmate, are you two supplying the condoms for them or do they bring their own condoms? If the former, they probably need to find their own personal brand of condoms that fit. If the latter, then perhaps christnthms' advice will help.

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It has happened to me as well. I had one come off and disappear. Had to really go digging to find it. I was embarrassed about it happening and told her the very second I noticed it. I didn't come in her (I'm fixed anyways) I re-wrapped and picked up where we left off. Later I even whipped out my smart phone and showed her my recent test results out of respect. Stuff happens :-)

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It has happened to me as well. I had one come off and disappear. Had to really go digging to find it. I was embarrassed about it happening....

 

Please don't be embarrassed about digging it out! I think it is very considerate to do that rather than to leave it in and let the woman think that everything is okay. With two different playmates, the condom slipped off inside me. One playmate thoughtfully dug it out and related how a playmate had left a condom inside his wife and they didn't know about it until she started having problems. So he makes sure to dig it out if it ever happens. The other playmate didn't say anything and I thought he just took it right off and took care of the mess. Let's just say Mr. Sun found it later...much to our surprise.

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Wow! I'd be pissed off to find out later. That is terrible and shows no respect. I really try and watch out for Mrs. Tallicafan in that regard. I make sure that her playmates are taking care of business when it come to being safe.

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Wow! I'd be pissed off to find out later. That is terrible and shows no respect. I really try and watch out for Mrs. Tallicafan in that regard. I make sure that her playmates are taking care of business when it come to being safe.

 

I think they were relatively new and it might have been embarrassing to ask or signal that something happened with the condom.

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Thank you every one for your advice. And yes it has happened with every guy she has been with, including me when we first met.

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It has happened to me a few times too when condoms coming off inside me. I narrowed the problem to the unrolled part of the condom. When I clenched say during an orgasm, the unrolled part of the condom would "get caught" and a few strokes later it's off. So a snugged fitting condom certainly helps. I also help the guy puts the condom on and I would roll it down as far down as possible which seem to help. I didn't know about the lube trick so I'll give that a try next time.

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Could it be that she gets to excited that she tight her pussy when he is inside her and she pull out the condom

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You could always warn play partners about it happening, and ask them to hold the base of the condom down, too, as well as increasing lube.

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So now that I am new on here I am exploring and reading posts. Condoms falling off hadn't been issue with me for years. When I was younger and before I was on BC I did have some major scares with broken ones, slipped off ones and even guys who thought they could hold off. Since our last child both of us have been fixed. It was a pact we made and we now enjoy fearless times together. The reason I stopped to read this thread is our very first meeting with a couple. Scary as the first time meeting is, we met a couple 10 years younger than us. Not knowing them at all we knew we needed to use something neither of have used in quite sometime. We made the trip to CVS and had our precaution with us. We both agreed only protected sex. Think I am going long here...lol. Well we all know oral was protected so there goes that pact.

So why am posting here? My young friend after very little play puts his condom on and after a few strokes argh I know he is done. Sorry just a little frustrating, I know it happens. But in his attempt to continue I can feel something dripping down my thigh. I didn't want to make anything out of it but I did feel like I was in HS all over again.

Oh, even though my husband enjoyed more than I did, we aren't meeting them again. BTW I have had 3 children and though I would like to say I am still tight, I won't. Also I wasn't that active.

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This has happened to me.. I like to dry off my dick before I put on the condom and make sure the condom fits tight. A tight fitting condom feels better to me.Loose condoms will come off esp if the woman is tight and can hump back. Keep her lubed up as well and all should be good. We keep some spermicidal stuff for just such accidents. I am fixed but the hope is the Anti sperm product will kill anything left behind. :eek::eek::eek::eek:That is our the hope. [/i]

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Damn! Your wife must fuck like a wild child! I never had a condom problem ever. The only way my ex wife could cum while fucking is if she was "riding" me. It is also usually the only way I could stay hard after I came.

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Im not hung like a horse and I've used probably thousands of condoms.

 

They don't fall off.

 

Someone is taking it off. Him or her.

 

Once? OK maybe she got dry

All the time? No way.

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Im not hung like a horse and I've used probably thousands of condoms.

 

They don't fall off.

 

Someone is taking it off. Him or her.

 

Once? OK maybe she got dry

All the time? No way.

 

Ok here is another thought along these lines. We have seen guys at some of the larger parties use condoms that are to big. I always suspected that they did that so the condom would fall off.

 

Maybe a change in partners is in order. Heck if they are dis honest about using a condom they dont get to play. Move on. No sense in endangering your health with a man like that.

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My husband has had it happen a couple times with a regular partner of ours. It seems that when she comes everything tightens so much the condom gets pulled off. I was watching the whole time (one of my favorite things!) so I know neither of them had their hands near the condom or purposely took it off.

 

While there are slimey people who will try to sneak a condom off, I would not jump to that conclusion.

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