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Hey everyone,

 

I know it has to have happened to some or most of you. You are in the middle of your full swap having your way with the other spouse when all of a sudden you or they realize the condom came off!

 

Knock on wood this has not happened to us yet. We would just like to know what everyone's course of action was after this happened? A friendly fishing expedition maybe?

 

Did you put a new one on and go at it? Or decide that it was a moot point by then...

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It has happened to us. It happens every now and then.

 

Pretty much a "friendly fishing expedition". Get it out and throw a new one on. And then it's back to action.

 

If it happens, don't let it worry you or freak either of you out.

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Did you put a new one on and go at it? Or decide that it was a moot point by then...

 

I would rate this the same as a condom break...yes we had one first time out...no we didn't have any back ups (something I will contribute to a newbie mistake)...my sweetie took that second train of thought you mentioned...ie: 'eh, damage is done' ripped off the broken one and went back to it.

 

To put it mildly, I was pissed and hurt....not things you want to happen on any playtime, let alone the first time out.

 

So my thoughts? Go fishing, put a new one on...if you are using a condom in the first place it's probably because that's what you and your spouse are ok with...if you were ok with going bareback then it would be a moot point.

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I've never had it happen during a swinging situation, but I did have it happen twice in my single days. Once was during a course of particularly wild (bed breaking) sex. It wasn't until we were done and he went to take off the condom that he realized it had been lost somewhere along the way. I went fishing and found it. The other time was (I believe) a case where he came and went soft and when he pulled out the condom stayed in. It wasn't buried so it was easy to get it out.

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I was with a lady and we were basking in the afterglow and when I pulled out, the condom stayed in. Oh shit, well, it went in the trash can.

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I've snagged a few condoms before . . . We just went fishin' and if we weren't finished, grabbed a new one and picked up where we left off.

 

=)

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Gentlemen, I would only add, and I mean this quite sincerely, should your condom get lost inside a lady, please let her know. Squelch all concerns about your ego and consider her health first!!! Talk about your nasty surprises... ewwwwwww:nono:

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We have had this happen once during a gang bang. We are unsure which man it was that lost his condom, but he did not say anything about it at the time. Maybe he didn't realize.

 

My wife found it the next morning when she was i the shower. It stayed in her all night.

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To date, We have not had this happen to us! However, I am not sure why, but I go through the suckers quite a bit. I have used many different kinds as well. No one brand is more sturdy than the next. The suckers just break. It could be my bad luck in purchasining defective condoms, but I doubt that.

 

I mention this issue only to bring up the fact that I have had to go fishing for condom parts. That is a tad more difficult. However, each time, everything has been recovered. Fortunately, I have always known the exact moment the condom broke. I can feel it. It kinda snaps and then there is no pressure at the tip!

 

With an instant withdrawl, I replace the torn one and go back at it!

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It's happened a few times to me. The first time it was just lost a little bit in. The second time it took some fishing to find. I usually try to check here and there to make sure it's still secure..sort of a stealth move while taking a quick breath or readjust position.

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lustylearning said:
Gentlemen, I would only add, and I mean this quite sincerely, should your condom get lost inside a lady, please let her know. Squelch all concerns about your ego and consider her health first!!! Talk about your nasty surprises... ewwwwwww :nono:

 

Our first experience with a SM went great. He completely satisfied my wife. The next day, we went to our usual pub for drinks. My wife was feeling sexy and was wearing a jean skirt sans undies. We had our eight year old with us at the time. She went to the bathroom at the pub and much to her chagrin, she found a used condom coming out. :sad:

 

Our worse case scenario would have been her walking to the bathroom and that damn gravity taking hold. Our eight year old exclaims "Mommy! You dropped something!! I'll get it..." :eek::eek:

 

Not good

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Wow...

 

I did not know that.

 

I mean, I did not know condoms "Fell" off...I've heard slide off, slip off, come off, were blown off, taken off, squeezed off, pulled off, sucked off, rolled off, wore off and disintegrated...plus some others.

 

But I have never seen or heard of a condom falling off a dick that's inside of a pussy before. :D

 

I hope it wasn't too deep in there and that it didn't fall very far down. If it fell to far someone might have gear up and repel down to retrieve it.:rolleyes:

 

I'm just being a smarty-ass :)

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I've never lost a condom inside of her before... usually I can tell if I'm "going soft" and think it's going to slip and pull out before that (doesn't usually happen while I'm in the midst of fucking)

 

I've heard a few instances where it's broken in mid-stroke... but most guys can DEFINATELY feel the difference if their pumping into latex or riding bare. So I don't buy the excuse that "they couldn't tell" it fell off

 

((**shrug**)) ... I've only heard of one instance where a fella left it in her after finishing (and didn't tell her) - and that fella was never invited back to play again.

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Our worse case scenario would have been her walking to the bathroom and that damn gravity taking hold. Our eight year old exclaims "Mommy! You dropped something!! I'll get it..."

 

That reminds me of how we learned the hard way to always empty trash cans after we have a party before we pick up the kids from grandparents. Very embarassing for kids to think they have found balloons in the trash.

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Never had it happen during swinging, but had the condom break once when my fiance and I were having sex. Luckily, I was on deprovera as a back up; because I was really worried about getting pregnant.

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This same type of incident happened to us during one of you first experiences.... The male my wife was with decided it was best to just continue.....POOR DECISION..... My wife noticed there was no condom and was very upset..... we were very clear about our safe sexual practice, so it was highly offensive for him not to stop right away and fix the sitituation..... That was almost five years ago now and everything turned out ok in the end, but not a happy memory...... Please be upfront about it stop and say something!!

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Wow...

 

I did not know that.

 

I mean, I did not know condoms "Fell" off...I've heard slide off, slip off, come off, were blown off, taken off, squeezed off, pulled off, sucked off, rolled off, wore off and disintegrated...plus some others.

 

But I have never seen or heard of a condom falling off a dick that's inside of a pussy before. :D

 

 

Same here! Buy a smaller condom or get a better brand!

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I am not sure why, but I go through the suckers quite a bit. I have used many different kinds as well. No one brand is more sturdy than the next. The suckers just break. It could be my bad luck in purchasing defective condoms, but I doubt that.

 

When I first became sexually active, I had problems with condoms breaking. It unnerved me, especially when it was the only form of BC in use. What I didn't know until later is that I am quite thicker than average, which is probably the source of the breakage problem.

 

To rectify the problem, I kept shopping for different condoms until I found one type that has, to date, never failed me. They're Trojan ENZ. They come in a blueish box. I've gone nearly 20 years now with this brand and not had a single problem. I will NOT say they're the best for high sensitivity. I feel like I'm putting on plate armor when I put one of these on. But, I can happily screw away knowing that it will not break.

 

As to falling off? Wow. Ok, I don't have this problem prior to ejaculation. If someone is having this problem, they too need to shop around and find a proper fitting condom. I've _always_ been careful after ejaculation, making sure that I pull out relatively quickly and always put my hand down there to make sure the condom comes with me. That's just proper use.

 

As for it happening and not telling? Immediate deal breaker. If you can be THAT inconsiderate... :nono::nono::nono: If it happens, and you move to correct it right away, that's different.

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Fall off? Nope but I have had them break. If we are having a protracted session...then I will get off and change. If woman is not "wet" - and I mean really excited - then lube is in order to help prevent the condom from breaking...but if that is the problem then taking a pause is most likely in order....:redflag:

 

When this happened to me the first time in a swinging session...did not come but when pulled out for a break had a tear at the end. Awkward but told partner immediately so didn't appear was hiding anything - and it is the right thing to do. She and he were cool and just said "put on another and get back here!" What can you do :shrug:?

 

In an hour session may change 2-3 times. Good change up to get in other position, let partner play with her husband, etc. If one of those nights where really excited...then 1 is enough :D. New enough at this that still trying to figure out what is the best. We got the Condom Depot sampler tin and have pretty much gone through that and now order another with different sampler. Only ones I don't try are the "magnums" - can't pretend to make those work :condom:

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I remember during one session in particular a playmate was using some lubricant both for sex and oral which did not seem to agree with latex.   We would be going at it and I'd look down and the condom was broken and we're raw.  I'd replace it with another go back at it and shortly after the same thing happened.   After 3 or 4 broke we just stopped trying to use them and went with it.  

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I have had condoms rip and had to fish them out, and I would bet the ones that fell off went limp and they slid off.

My sister was an office nurse for a doctor in our rural town. One of the best looking woman in town came to the Doctor's office with complaints about her pussy smelling. The doctor got down there  and fished out a condom that was turning green.  Don't know how long it had been there but the doctor cleaned her out good and put her on antibiotics. 

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Never had a condom fall/slip off (not asked that often to use one even though I’d ask, but mostly private parties/regular playmates) but I have had the break/split and occasionally not realize until finished.

 

When I caught it I would stop and change out and was always thanked after.  On occasion I would be told don’t worry keep going, don’t stop.  In most of these cases the practice was to pull out take the condom off and cum outside where ever the lady asked.

 

It is the definition of open communication between all participants.

 

During one MFM session husband and I alternating back and forth being inside his wife after cumming (her request) deep in her pulling out the end of the condom broke I immediately told them and the husband quickly moved in and entered his wife and starting pumping furiously.  As it turned out it was both their kink and both were pleased the session ended this way.  Certainly not the norm

 

The couple stayed in our closed group for the next 3-4 years regularly asking for and enjoying multiple males finishing in his wife in one session.

 

 

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